I know that a WIFE is one of man's REWARDS for being faithful and obedient to God! Yet many of us, women have supposedly blocked our ears to him...and have taken it upon ourselves to hitherto reward men who are NEITHER that...simply because of the pressure of being LONELY and the biased judgement we get from society.
And then we wonder why we are very unhappy?... Why is that we aren't VALUED or fulfilled? Why is that he treats you like nothing but a glorified SERVANT? If only he understood what you mean to his SUCCESS and his growth, he wouldn't physically HURT, cheat or take you for granted. If only you showed him from the very start, what you are WORTH and why you won't TOLERATE his bullshit.
If only you showed him how BEST to love you and how much VALUE you place on your emotional sanity. If only he knew your real worth...that you are there to bring STABILITY to his life....And should be treated like a QUEEN and the C.E.O of the household. That you are his backbone and his SUPPORT system. ...that love is about GIVING, not receiving. That love puts focus on the other person's SATISFACTION and happiness, not his. And you will give anything except your DIGNITY before he depletes you and leaves you EMOTIONALLY BANKRUPT. Perhaps its because we CHOOSE for ourselves, who God may not have chosen for us, had we given him the chance and listened to him. And more often than not, those who treat us bad...do so because they know that we are willing to put up with it. (Trust me, I've been there).
Still "He who finds a wife, finds a good thing and obtains favour from the lord" Yes! (But the bible didn't say...."She who finds a husband"...) So KEEP CALM and wait, if you are single. Don't let society PRESSURE you into thinking you have to seek out the men, woo them, perhaps propose and take all that crap? When a man treats you bad...you have to first take RESPONSIBILITY for choosing the wrong man and secondly, for giving him the power to hurt you.
It doesn't matter if you're a SINGLE mother, Divorced, Separated or Widowed.... All that matters is how you see yourself and what you think you deserve. There's someone out there for you as long as you remember that "A wife is a gift"... so spend your WAITING period on becoming the best possible GIFT you can be...But If you're already Married and unhappy, it's time to be your own HERO and take back your POWER. Let's see if a truly DESERVING man will be that STUPID to pass you over or keep treating you bad.
Have A Fantastic Friday Lovelies! Kisses!