There is something called having the 'GOOD FIGHT'. The good fight means you are willing to RISK brief moments of peace to bring about positive change or PROGRESS. And most times, the couple or friends that fight a lot are usually the ones who love each other the MOST...
Because it shows they CARE enough to notice when the other person SCREWS up... And care that much to mention it, so the person can fix it.
We fight with the people we love the most because we have EXPECTATIONS and subconsciously believe they are the relationships WORTH fighting for.
Now, while some relationships are worth a good fight... You can't be the ONLY one fighting, if the other party doesn't feel you are WORTH a fight.
They shouldn't expect you to STAY connected, if all they do is give you many REASONS to walk away even though sometimes we instinctively PUSH someone away, simply because we are hoping, they will pull us CLOSER.
When you stop fighting, it may simply mean you've stopped caring. So THROW the punches if you may.... but for great purpose and with good reasons only.
Have A Terrific Tuesday Lovelies! Kisses!