Friday, 29 August 2014

Let Them Earn Their Keep!

Recently I put myself through a little weaning session. I'm a firm believer in relationships and friendships....but only the ones that are MEANINGFUL. I mean, who seriously wants to be surrounded by fair weather friends and time wasters. What's the point in people taking up space that could be easily occupied by someone else with VALUE. So I asked myself these Simple Questions: 

A) Who can you guarantee will be by your side ten years from now when you need them? 

B) Are you surrounded by the best support system anyone could ever ask for? 

C) If you were in some emergency in desperate need of a kidney, who loves you enough to donate theirs instantly without batting an eyelid? 

D) Who is always willing to give you their time, no matter how busy or upset they are? 

If you can't answer these questions, you might need to RE-EVALUATE your relationships.

Life isn't just about living for TODAY. We must live it like there's a tomorrow and everyone must have a PURPOSE for being a part of your life. It all comes down to that person who is always Available, Reliable, Loyal, Accessible, Dependable and Trustworthy. 

Let people earn their KEEP. No matter who they are...Don't be afraid to CUT off those who add little or no value to your life...And don't be afraid to EMBRACE those you know will do just about anything for you, or have INVESTED way too much in you to give up on you...Let them know you value them because I have learned that relationships can be fickle. Only those who know how to NUTURE them, stay happy.  

Have A Fantastic Friday Lovelies! Kisses!

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