But no matter what you do, don't let people USE you to pass time, mark time or just to keep their boring lives interesting....You need CLARITY at every stage of your life and certainly someone who knows for sure that they WANT you (warts and all) to be a part of their lives.
If they are not willing to DEFINE the relationship they want with you or have with you in very CLEAR terms... and stay within those boundaries, no matter how seemingly good they might be with you, clearly they are intentionally SETTING you up for a very bad fall...and dare not think they will be there to catch you.
If you are going to fall and break your bones... Better to FALL for someone who genuinely cares and break your bones knowing that the persons hands might just have CAVED under your plenty baggage...and not because they considered you unworthy to stretch out their hands.
Nobody that wants you stays SILENT about their desires. If they think you are worthy, they will definitely FIND their voice. If they don't, please grab some dignity and find the bloody door.
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