But I can say that I have loads of countless personal EXPERIENCE (good and bad) that serve as practical analysis, for my reflection, MUSINGS, and EXPRESSION, as well as the experience of others around me, which have now guided the new theories that form my many opinions.
Its IMPERATIVE that we learn from the experience or mistakes of others, because we can never live LONG enough.... to even make them all ourselves.
I have learned that most relationships FAIL, not because of the ABSENCE of love. LOVE is present alright. It's just that one person loves far too MUCH... while the other person loves far too LITTLE!
So when people say, they love you. That might in fact be TRUE...but perhaps the 'love' they supposedly have for you is simply NOT strong enough to earn you, KEEP you or even fight for you.
It sort of reminds me of my favourite Teddy Pendergrass song.... "It feels good loving somebody and that somebody loves you back" BUT the best part of the song for me is the 'refrain' where he sings.... "Not 70/30, not 60/40...We're talking about 50/50 love...Yea"
So if you are the type to give, give and FORGIVE....And your partner is the type to get, get and FORGET....then it doesn't take rocket science to see that your partner or spouse isn't giving you that 50/50 kind of love... Just like a LOAD on a seesaw, if the EFFORT doesn't balance the weight, the WEIGHT will tip. Something is bound to give. And that might just be your very HAPPINESS!
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