Friday, 27 November 2015

Regret Is Not A Pretty Road


Hello Lovelies, Hope you had a good thanksgiving celebration with your loved ones? If you did, then that's something to be truly thankful for, as so many people spent it ALONE...and away from those they really care about.



Now, one of the most common EMOTIONS, my clarity callers express during my one-on-one #AskAlex Talk Therapy sessions with them is REGRET. And while I try to motivate them to channel their feelings of regrets into a more positive outlook, perhaps the reflection of an Experience, a lesson learned. I have to admit, we are sometimes our own undoing.

So here are two cliche but meaningful quotes you may want to pay more attention to, as regards the relationship you build with others.

QUOTE 1: "You don't miss your water till the well runs dry..."

TRANSLATION: You may never know the value of something or someone important till its no longer there. Till they are gone.

RESOLUTION: Don't wait till you lose what's important to you... before you recognize it's actual value.

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QUOTE 2: "Even a Rubber Band when stretched beyond limits breaks, no matter the amount of elasticity it possesses."

TRANSLATION: Likewise no matter how much a person truly loves you, there's only so much they can take...

RESOLUTION: Don't keep taking someone for granted and stretch their tolerance beyond their love, or they will reach their breaking point.

Regret is not a pretty road to travel. Do yourself some good, by appreciating the value that people around you bring to the table...Or do you have contradictory opinion? Feel free to share your thoughts!.

Have you grabbed your own copy of my Widely Anticipated New Book- THE NAKED TRUTH: Lies Stripped... The Reviews are great. Just Click my OFFICIAL WEBSITE,  or BUY @ AMAZONSMASHWORD, BARNES & NOBLE or PayHip and GUMROAD.  It is an Intimate & Relatable guide to the crazy TRUTH about Love, Life, Relationship, Sex & Reality. It offers WISDOM to those who are struggling to accept the truth about who they really are and different aspects of their life.  Get it and please let me know what you think.




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Sunday, 22 November 2015

Hate Is Not The Opposite Of Love


Too many times, I hear different people say, "I don't love him anymore, I hate him"..."Holy Geez! I can't STAND her...I don't love her, I feel the opposite.". So what is the opposite?

"Well, the opposite of love is not hatred....I have always said that HATE is just as powerful an emotion as LOVE....Isn't that why they say there is a thin line between Love and Hate....So then, what is the opposite of love? 
It's actually 'indifference'... A big fat sweaty ball of INDIFFERENCE- That effortless moment when they couldn't care less, whether you lived, DIED or dropped off the surface of the earth....No wasted, vested emotion whatsoever in your INSIGNIFICANT existence....and worse, you'll even wish they hated you...hated you enough, so you could get some bloody REACTION... any reaction.

Remember, that dead-beat-no-dial tone you get when your phone battery is flat out ZERO, Yes, that zero concern  is the precise moment you experience the OPPOSITE of what love is and that is just the naked truth...."

Culled from 'Chapter 4: in my upcoming book "THE NAKED EXPERIENCE; From Timid Girl To Confident Woman". To reserve your own 'Specially Autographed' copy of my book at my blog store NOW, click HERE.....  And win an invite to my Book Gala and 2 VIP tickets for you and a loved one to my Book Tour in March 2016. Are you a member of ALEX'S BLOG COMMUNITY? All ABC members get instant access to the ABC Book Club and The Naked Challenge Webinars. You'll loveeee it! ‎

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PODCAST: Award Winning Filmmaker, Jeta Amata Talks About Using Film To Give Others A Voice


In a world filled with frivolous content, a lack of presence of mind and a shorter attention span. So many film-makers are known to create works that purely entertain their audience with no underlining message (and while that isn't a crime)....others have horned their storytelling craft towards educating and using the lens as their medium for ADVOCACY. And Multiple Award Winning Filmmaker, JETA AMATA is one of those, who understands the impact of telling the right stories to effect change in society, as he continues to use his Art as an awareness platform, to tell the stories of those who have no voice.

So, Last night's LIVE show was nothing short of great laughs, pranks, anecdotes, and empowering conversations...JETA AMATA told stories for days...And oh, that surprise call from his old buddy, Award Winning Actor & Filmmaker - JOHN NJAMAH. It was a crazy re-union like no other. They even hijacked the show with their On-Air Bro-mance. We talked about Actors, Casting, Challenges...And so many people were mentioned in this episode...even the questions asked by An American Actress, Samantha from LA who called in to the show. He addressed some of the issues and criticisms by the international media. Which didn't stop him from acknowledging a lot of his colleagues and complimenting other filmmakers like Kunle Afolayan, Mildred Okwo, Obi Emelonye , Tunde Kelani, Robert Peters, Emem Isong, Desmond Elliot and so many others.

SONG PLAYED ON THE SHOW...

#1) Like We Do - by Peter Kelly
#2) Sparrow - by Scott Krokoff
#3) Living Like We Do - by Romeo Crow

If you missed it LIVE, You can still LISTEN to the Archived Show at my Radio Channel. You can SEARCH or Click on my syndicated show on any of your favourite Internet Radio Platforms like Stitcher, ITunes or Tune-In Radio. Don't forget to DOWNLOAD it now. You can also subscribe and leave your reviews on STITCHER and 

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You can find out more details about his work at www.JetaAmataConepts.com and follow him on Twitter , Instagram


I Love You For Listening. Xoxo

Have you grabbed your own copy of my Widely Anticipated New Book- THE NAKED TRUTH: Lies Stripped... The Reviews are great. Just Click my OFFICIAL WEBSITE,  or BUY @ AMAZONSMASHWORD, BARNES & NOBLE or PayHip and GUMROAD.  It is an Intimate & Relatable guide to the crazy TRUTH about Love, Life, Relationship, Sex & Reality. It offers WISDOM to those who are struggling to accept the truth about who they really are and different aspects of their life.  Get it and please let me know what you think.




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Saturday, 21 November 2015

PODCAST: American Author, Speaker & Relationship Educator- Roland Hinds Talks About The Silent Scream


People are creating lots of impact around the world and American Author, Speaker, Relationship Educator & Host of TruVue Radio, ROLAND HINDS is one of those true believers in self help and empowering others who may consider themselves to be stuck. His popular relationship podcast, which has interviewed several hundreds of industry professionals and allowed guests share their personal testimonies focused on building healthy relationships and bringing awareness to pertinent topics like, Cancer, HIV/AIDS and various forms of physical and EMOTIONAL abuse...And has been featured on Dr. Drew HLN, Nancy Grace, magazines like, Focus on the Family, Ebony, ABC News, Woman’s Day and his articles as a top contributor to Essence, Ebony and Your Tango.

His self help book - “Are You The Right One For Me? Whose Choice Is It Anyway?” has influenced many lives...and Roland produced several presentations focusing on fatherless children, sexual immoralities and other dysfunctional relationships. He also produced a documentary targeting people who are in the church and kept secrets, called Silent SCREAM which has consolidated into a support group for those who are embattled with self esteem, self mutilation, rape and other challenges to openly express themselves in a safe place while breaking their silence, shame and guilt while helping them FLOAT their way to the top.


SONG PLAYED ON THE SHOW...

#1) Maybe - by Peter Kelly

If you missed it LIVE, You can still LISTEN to the Archived Show at my Radio Channel. You can SEARCH or Click on my syndicated show on any of your favourite Internet Radio Platforms like Stitcher, ITunes or Tune-In Radio. Don't forget to DOWNLOAD it now. You can also subscribe and leave your reviews on STITCHER and 

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This EPISODE of #TNT 036 was brought to you by Qtaby Entertainments & Events, Hair'Volution Magazine and The Tony Okoroji Store .

You can find out more about the Silent Scream at www.SilentScream.yolasite.com and follow them on Twitter


I Love You For Listening. Xoxo

Have you grabbed your own copy of my Widely Anticipated New Book- THE NAKED TRUTH: Lies Stripped... The Reviews are great. Just Click my OFFICIAL WEBSITE,  or BUY @ AMAZONSMASHWORD, BARNES & NOBLE or PayHip and GUMROAD.  It is an Intimate & Relatable guide to the crazy TRUTH about Love, Life, Relationship, Sex & Reality. It offers WISDOM to those who are struggling to accept the truth about who they really are and different aspects of their life.  Get it and please let me know what you think.




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Tuesday, 17 November 2015

The Woman With A Vision For A Man With A Dream


QUESTION: "Dear Alex, what's your advice to a guy in love, but his woman isn't visionary even though she is very nice and prayerful? I would like for you to write a blog post. Thanks. Peter."

ANSWER: Hey Peter, It is true that a Man with DREAMS needs a woman with VISION. In fact I don't know any real couple that can survive the harsh realities of relationships or fulfill their life's purpose if they aren't aware of what they both want to accomplish individually as well as together and how they PLAN to accomplish it. And the active and significant role a woman intends to play, to make her man's dream a REALITY.

A lot of men think finding the right woman is simply about finding a peaceful prayerful woman. But haven't you seen pastor wives leave their husbands, or prayer warriors STRUGGLE with relationship dilemmas? Good women on their knees but the problem still lingers because the solution isn't purely about lighting the devil on FIRE with the tongue, or her cool calm nature. But the practical assertion of the words we read in the holy book and how it influences our actions and a lifestyle, that translates into productive results for the actual life we want. Aha! So if vision is the act or power to envisage a goal, plan accordingly or anticipate that which may happen or come to be....Then, I'm referring to a woman with clear foresight or insight on how to achieve desired results or how she can assist or motivate her man to achieve his many goals... whether it is a financial goal, a weight goal, a spiritual goal or even a relationship goal.

I remember in 2003, my mother fired one of the best staff she's ever hired in her business...Why? She said, "the late Evelyn (not her real name) was stealing from her business..." Yes, that was true. But I remember, my father and I incessantly begging her to let her keep the job. Evelyn was a thief...but a BRILLIANT one. This was a girl who walked in with little education and thread on her hair yet transformed herself into a top sales executive. Yes, she was stealing from the business but she knew how well to make the darn money. She had ideas...a vision of how the business should be if it were hers. She never let anyone owe my mother a penny. She was astute and had an incredible attitude about work, including overtimes...Yes, She was that driven, ambitious and making so much SALES for my mother that she grew the business ,because she knew that the more sales she made, the more money she could take out, without any suspicion.

My mother felt hurt, betrayed and focused so much on the little she was stealing... that she forgot the plenty PROFIT Evelyn was making for her business. She couldn't bear someone taking what belonged to her and she wanted a loyal prayerful sales person, she didn't want anyone as ambitious as Evelyn. A simple person who was comfortable with achieving little. But I remember telling my mother that I would rather have a smart hard working thief working for me than a DUMB loyal staff. My point of reasoning was simple. I would rather have 40% of something...than 100% of nothing. I mean, I don't want anyone so unambitious, so dumb that they can't even add a single value to my business. Moreover, People are only LOYAL to themselves and their NEEDS. Just as long as you can somehow tie your vision to theirs. They will stay. And if they grow...You grow....Everyone is happy.

Of course, my mother fired her and the business hasn't been the same ever since. Not because of lack of ideas or hard work but the driving force who required that business to THRIVE to make her own personal gain was no longer in the equation. She took her bold ideas as well as the customers who loved her drive, her ZEAL and work ethics, along with her. All though my mother thought, she would be happier and more confident with a loyal prayerful sales rep... She learned the hard way. Even though all Evelyn's replacements were good people who never stole a PENNY, they hardly ever made any substantial sales, enough to even steal. So what good was it having them there? It didn't matter how many times they fasted for sales to happen, or prayed for customers to come in. They simply didn't have the passion or foresight it took to be a part of the business. 

Something, I foresaw. My father did too...but she couldn't see...And let's just say at some point it was no longer interesting for any of us in the family to be involved in the business, it was her business and we had our own jobs to FOCUS on. The one staff, we trusted was brilliant enough to take our CREATIVE input and fly with it, was no longer there. But it could have played out differently, if the one with the dream listened to the ones with the foresight (Vision). And oh, I can assure you that in so many homes, there's nothing romantically fascinating about a person who is either FRUSTRATED with their business or living from hand to mouth.

Now, one of the biggest problems the world has, is that we don't tell ourselves the naked TRUTH. We crave to stand out...Yet, we conform to societal expectations, and try to fit in to average ideology(s), any chance we get. A man will MARRY a woman simply because his pastor says, "That's the one. She's the BETTER one. The prayerful one." Even though, he somehow hasn't factored in other aspects of their lives and what it would actually be like twenty years from now. Christians are getting separated and divorced everyday...and it takes a whole lot more than reading the bible and binding principalities, to BALANCE the different facets of a complex institution.

Don't get me wrong. Having a peaceful home is important and having a prayerful woman is downright necessary...but PRAYER without WORK is dead. After all, the bible quotes that Heaven only helps those who help themselves. And I have come to learn that PEACE is brought forth by happiness and happiness emanates from genuine SATISFACTION. So having a lazy partner who brings nothing to the table, who's job is simply to take, because a man is willing to provide...isn't doing herself, her man or the foundation of the relationship any good. And that's when one starts getting resentful and the relationship becomes unsatisfactory, because one person is giving and giving...And another is taking and taking.

It isn't one person's responsibility to pray or to be catered for...and the other person's own to work. Even if a woman has goals and DESIRES of her own...How does it align with his own goals? How can they partner to become stronger and more DYNAMIC than either of them could ever be on their own? The basic reason that most relationships breakdown is because goals are no longer aligned, mutual vision does not exist...and they no longer want the same thing. One person wants out, another wants in...One wants to live in one country, or become something the other person doesn't want. One lives a lifestyle the other doesn't like...And guess what, it happens to the best of people, some who love but don't understand the dynamic of love...some who have stayed together for years...but have grown apart.

One of the things that keeps a real man going, are the dreams he has, and having a woman by his side who understands it, can nurture it and add VALUE to it, places her in an important position is his life. Whether he is the workaholic who only thinks about work or the affectionate homebody. Either way, it is a win for her and for him. She doesn't need to be a business oriented guru. She only needs to know how to add value to his dreams, his life by finding ways to support & encourage him to GROW and keep growing. Because a passive woman who allows a man to remain stagnate isn't adding any value to his growth and that is not LOVE.... For love is laced with value. One can not show love/ APPRECIATION for something or someone they don't value. My advice is for a man to always look out for what positive role a woman plays in his life first. (Which is why mothers are important to a lot of men...they are the first PRACTICAL example of a woman who adds value to them and propels their dreams).

A woman who has a vision...isn't merely a TAKER or a common talker who has plans that never go beyond her lips or leave her note pad....she is a doer. An ACHIEVER...a woman who has a mental picture of the exact kind of life she wants for herself, the kind of man that FITS into it, how she wants to be treated, how she wants to treat him and how they can together, CONQUER their purpose in life. A woman who understands that there is no mountain high enough, valley low enough nor even a river wide enough, to keep her from achieving a SUCCESS of out it all. This type of woman with a vision is the exact kind, for the man with a dream. 

I hope you find some value in my thoughts today. Please feel free to also share your thoughts. Got A Question? Feel Free to click the "Chat With Me" Button at the bottom of my blog.

Don't forget to RSVP for my Free Upcoming Live Webinar - THE NAKED CHALLENGE 102: "How To Finish What You Started..." Saturday, 21 November 2015....and get empowered to achieve results for your own goals.

Have you grabbed your own copy of my Widely Anticipated New Book- THE NAKED TRUTH: Lies Stripped... The Reviews are great. Just Click my OFFICIAL WEBSITE,  or BUY @ AMAZONSMASHWORD, BARNES & NOBLE or PayHip and GUMROAD.  It is an Intimate & Relatable guide to the crazy TRUTH about Love, Life, Relationship, Sex & Reality. It offers WISDOM to those who are struggling to accept the truth about who they really are and different aspects of their life.  Get it and please let me know what you think.




P.S: If You love what I do...You can become a VIP STAR PATRON by making a monthly pledge to get access to my best quality content before anyone else + earn some good REWARDS. Click PLEDGE If you also missed my MOTIVATIONAL live webinar and want to watch THE NAKED CHALLENGE 101 Webinar Video. Please click ACCESS to download the and learn my 10 BASIC MIND STRATEGY on how to accomplish real GOALS.

Don't forget to call in and catch me on Talk Wednesday and Friday Radio SpecialLIVE @ 9pm (GMT) on THE NAKED TALK Internet Radio Show. Its always a stimulating conversation with my guests. .



NOTE : Join Me In My Effort To Change The World With My Empowering Thoughts. If You Like Today's 'Love And Naked Reality'....Then Don't Forget To Comment and Share It With Those You Love (Or Even Like A Lot).

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Monday, 16 November 2015

Good or Bad: The Overflow That Won't Stop Flowing...


My son had developed a bad cold and whooping cough...and there I was, telling my mother yesterday at the family house... that it doesn't rain...it POURS...Not long after, I received an SMS at 12 midnight from my neighbour saying, water was gushing out of my apartment...that I needed to come turn off a tap in my bathroom because it was flowing into his own apartment downstairs...Dang! I was MORTIFIED and completely worried...How was it possible that I or my housekeeper left a tap running?...I mean, I had double checked before leaving the house prior to COSON week...In fact, I was over at the house on Tuesday to PICK up some documents and more clothes for myself and Ray...No sign of any loose tap or water running anywhere. Is this a PRANK? Are we in April. Strangely wondering if the joke was on me...as my mind kept racing, though I couldn't see any good reason for why Mr Daniel would want to prank me, we aren't even that close.

So we rushed over the next morning... And there it was all 3 bedrooms, bathrooms and living room... the entire apartment completely FLOODED...covered wall to wall in a massive pool of water...And guess what? I had only recently pulled down all the flats screens in every bedroom and living room, and I had clothes, shoes, bags, jewelry...everything else you can imagine packed into boxes, suitcases and rafia bags because I'm in the process of moving houses (and you know how TEDIOUS these sort of planning takes, especially if you are as meticulous as I am.

So suffice to say that my entire belongings were soaked including the 4 big screen TV's for each room, DVD player's...My cable decoders... let me go numb on the rest, so as not to sound like a totally VAIN woman who worships material assets...but just imagine a tastefully furnished apartment completely RIPPED apart and swimming in water, including my gorgeous washing machine right before my eyes, doing a back stroke coughing out fluid from its electrical nostrils in the shocking POOL, that had formed from the mammoth of water gushing out from the water closet in my bathroom, which suddenly malfunctioned in my ABSENCE, and won't stop pumping water into the WC.

So there I was CONFUSED, not sure whether to cry, hit my head on the bloody wall, jump in for a SWIM, dial a PLUMBER or save the rest of my already damaged belongings. Here in my own apartment, I suddenly have my own RIVER. If I hadn't experienced a fire outbreak that gutted my family house 10 years ago, one that wiped out our history... and I wasn't so PAINED, at the thought that I couldn't find anyone to PIN the blame on...Yikes! for the first time it isn't Chinwe's FAULT, as I was almost 90% sure, if a tap was left running it would have come from her own bathroom and that usual absent mindedness I have so many times chided her for displaying ...but err...no, it wasn't Chinwe's doing.

This time, it came straight from my own bathroom and no it wasn't my fault either...in fact, I found it rather STRANGE that this same toilet that refused to fill up it's water closet with even a tiny drop, for the last two months, (one of the many tiny reasons I wanted to move out) was now overflowing with water non-stop, on its own...Just like that...Hahahah...MAGICAL! And had I not been overwhelmed by anger, I could have found the sight of my own little TSUNAMI a tad hilarious.

Not sure where to START...clean out the water or try to save my things?...Err, so I did the first thing that came to mind....I start picking up what I could...of course, my clothes were soaked, a few even had their colours running into other colours...Oh John, I'm sorry (your white shirt got ruined somewhat...even Ray's baby clothes...I had intended to give to Victoria Nkong, the administrator of Life Fountain Orphanage for the past #SYC charity auction... My note pads...yes I still scribble traditionally from time to time...Show notes and invitations for my guests...my never ending list of goals...my VISION pyramid...All soaked...Cover Magazine Features...soaked... my under garments...and the seven bloody hours, it took us to MOP the entire apartment DRY,  my body ached...sweat poring out of pores like a reptile....Had to switch off the entire electricity in the apartment... of course I had to throw away so many things too. And launder the ones I managed to save...Phewww! The good part of these is that I found a lot of things I forgot I was hoarding. And was finally able to let go.

One of the PRECIOUS lessons I learned 10 years ago from the fire incidence, was simply that all the material things we strive hard to acquire is all VANITY and can be gone in a flash...So while looking at all the things, I have lost...I may have lost property but I certainly haven't lost my MIND or my grace. It could have been worse...some people have had it worse.  But I realise the devil has a nice way of playing tricks with your mind...Testing your faith and selling you undiluted FEAR but I refuse to let him make a mockery of my transformation.

I know I have a CHOICE to see this setback as a flood that's about to DROWN me, but having negative thoughts are way too easy... instead I have decided to see this downpour as an ironic SHOWER of blessings, wetting the floor for my arrival, WASHING away my obstacles, fertilising my OPPORTUNITIES and Growing my GRACE. Yes, Just like the Water Closet, a faith that all bad fortunes trying to stop me from functioning, will surprisingly MALFUNCTION and turn into a good fortune that will OVERFLOW non-stop to everyone's amazement. That positive overflow that won't stop flowing. And I also wish the same for you too, yes you... who took the time to read this post. Is this a Monday prayer? You BETCHA! Happy New Week Sweetkin...And oh! feel free to share your thoughts on how you channel negative thoughts from bad circumstances. I'll love to hear from you!

Don't forget to RSVP for my Free Upcoming Live Webinar - THE NAKED CHALLENGE 102: "How To Finish What You Started..." Saturday, 21 November 2015....and get empowered to achieve results for your own goals.

Have you grabbed your own copy of my Widely Anticipated New Book- THE NAKED TRUTH: Lies Stripped... The Reviews are great. Just Click my OFFICIAL WEBSITE,  or BUY @ AMAZONSMASHWORD, BARNES & NOBLE or PayHip and GUMROAD.  It is an Intimate & Relatable guide to the crazy TRUTH about Love, Life, Relationship, Sex & Reality. It offers WISDOM to those who are struggling to accept the truth about who they really are and different aspects of their life.  Get it and please let me know what you think.




P.S: If You love what I do...You can become a VIP STAR PATRON by making a monthly pledge to get access to my best quality content before anyone else + earn some good REWARDS. Click PLEDGE If you also missed my MOTIVATIONAL live webinar and want to watch THE NAKED CHALLENGE 101 Webinar Video. Please click ACCESS to download the and learn my 10 BASIC MIND STRATEGY on how to accomplish real GOALS.

Don't forget to call in and catch me on Talk Wednesday and Friday Radio SpecialLIVE @ 9pm (GMT) on THE NAKED TALK Internet Radio Show. Its always a stimulating conversation with my guests. .



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Wednesday, 11 November 2015

Invest In Your Growth


I like being admired and called SEXY. I absolutely do...After all I'm a woman who loves compliments. One, who loves to flaunt her confidence even though I never know how to respond to Flattery. Still I'll rather be GROWN than sexy...For I no longer seek the VANITY too many people care so much for...I mean, have you tried healing the sick with your CLEAVAGE or paying your child's school fees with instagram likes? Have you ever needed a cuddle from your 285,000 followers on social media and no one showed up but your raggedy ass neighbour who has never heard of Facebook, yet gave you kind words to comfort you? Have you tried using your FAME to cure CANCER or your AGE to buy a CAR or even your MONEY to raise the dead?

So your boyfriend is a Celebrity...YeHaaa!!! But wait! Who has that information empowered? Did your endorsement change your content or did it only change your packaging? And soon as the layers of coverings are peeled off. We may find out, you are an expired product with no actual substance. So while we go about chasing the small things, let's not forget to place VALUE on the real things that matter...like upgrading the content of your mind, learning, growing, improving the relationships you have, quality of life you LEAD and how it enables others to actually succeed.

Until you get NAKED with yourself and accept that you are not at your absolute best...and that you don't know it all. There will be no room to grow...no room for IMPROVEMENT. Until you challenge your focus, starve your distractions and FEED your mind...there will be no real direction.

I'm here to remind you that It's okay to ASK for help...It's okay seek WISDOM...It's okay to try NEW things...or step out of your zone. it's Okay to have a Mentor or even Hire a Coach...It's actually okay to Invest in your GROWTH, just like you would...on your WARDROBE." - #MyWednesdayMorsel

P.S: Today, I'm offering a 20% discount on my latest E-Book - "THE NAKED TRUTH: Lies Stripped..." for today only. Feel free to use the discount code (tnt01) @ my creator store and CLICK DOWNLOAD HERE your copy NOW!

I Love You For Growing...

Don't forget to RSVP for my Free Upcoming Live Webinar - THE NAKED CHALLENGE 102: "How To Finish What You Started..." Saturday, 21 November 2015....and get empowered to achieve results for your own goals.

Have you grabbed your own copy of my Widely Anticipated New Book- THE NAKED TRUTH: Lies Stripped... The Reviews are great. Just Visit my OFFICIAL WEBSITE,  or BUY @ AMAZONSMASHWORD, BARNES & NOBLE or PayHip and GUMROAD.  It is an Intimate & Relatable guide to the crazy TRUTH about Love, Life, Relationship, Sex & Reality. It offers WISDOM to those who are struggling to accept the truth about who they really are and different aspects of their life.  Get it and please let me know what you think.




P.S: If You love what I do...You can become a VIP STAR PATRON by making a monthly pledge to get access to my best quality content before anyone else + earn some good REWARDS. Click PLEDGE If you also missed my MOTIVATIONAL live webinar and want to watch THE NAKED CHALLENGE 101 Webinar Video. Please click ACCESS to download the and learn my 10 BASIC MIND STRATEGY on how to accomplish real GOALS.

Don't forget to call in and catch me on Talk Wednesday and Friday Radio SpecialLIVE @ 9pm (GMT) on THE NAKED TALK Internet Radio Show. Its always a stimulating conversation with my guests. .



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Tuesday, 10 November 2015

UPDATE: The Metamorphosis of The Naked Movement


Hey Truth-Seekers, Imagine a society where people are allowed to SPEAK, share their views and be respected for it. A society where unique voices are used to bring about CHANGE and transformation...A community where BROKEN people are empowered. Well, as an Ambassador for Self Empowerment with over 26,830 plus Loyal Email Subscribers who get weekly Updates from this blog... or my 63,000+ collective followers on social media, over 840,000+ views on Google+ and over 2 Million Plus Hits in a closed niche... all in just about a year, without paid SEOs, or Traditional Advertising. Just one crazy passionate woman with a weird vision, pushing her dreams here. Well, I am indeed proud that The Ministry is growing...And the MOVEMENT is real. I'm also excited to announce the metamorphosis of an Ideology that has transformed into An Actual Global Platform. One that I would love for you to collaborate with & become a part of, as I look forward to launching on Saturday, 21 November 2015- THE NAKED MOVEMENT.ORG - A Community that supports those whose voices have been suppressed, while enabling people to EMPOWER themselves through the medium of EXPRESSION | AWARENESS | TRANSFORMATION . If there's anything I hope I'll be able to achieve, as the Founder of this movement. It is to provide a platform where people feel comfortable to find their own voice, strip the MASK they hide behind and get real, so they can transform themselves with the TRUTH and live an enlightened life, filled with purpose.



So would you like to express yourself as a TOP Contributor to our weekly blog and share your Own NAKED THOUGHTS on any real issues that concern you? (+ build your own online audience) Or become a Partner with us and share your brand/service/product with our global community? Would you like to mentor or feature, as a Guest Speaker at any of THE NAKED CHALLENGE Webinars & Tele-Summits? Or Co host our Monday Podcast "Let's Get Naked" on True Talk Radio Network? Would you BE BRAVE enough to share your own personal NAKED EXPERIENCE or story of transformation with this community or Volunteer for our Community Service/Empowerment Projects? Note that @ www.TheNakedMovement.Org every person will have a voice and every voice will be heard.

P.S: So if you are interested in being an integral part of this great movement. Please send your Article, 120 seconds Audio clip, Bio's
Or enquiries to Info@TheNakedMovement.org or TheNakedMovementOrganisation@Gmail.com within the next 72 hours for screening and we'll get back to you. And kindly follow our new handle on twitter @NakedMovement1 and we'll follow back.

The World Definitely Needs to Hear You...

Please Share...You might be helping someone who needs the platform. I Love You.

Don't forget to RSVP for my Free Upcoming Live Webinar - THE NAKED CHALLENGE 102: "How To Finish What You Started..." this Saturday, 21 November 2015....and get empowered to achieve results for your own goals.

Have you grabbed your own copy of my Widely Anticipated New Book- THE NAKED TRUTH: Lies Stripped... The Reviews are great. Just Visit my OFFICIAL WEBSITE,  or BUY @ AMAZONSMASHWORD, BARNES & NOBLE or PayHip and GUMROAD.  It is an Intimate & Relatable guide to the crazy TRUTH about Love, Life, Relationship, Sex & Reality. It offers WISDOM to those who are struggling to accept the truth about who they really are and different aspects of their life.  Get it and please let me know what you think.




P.S: If You love what I do...You can become a VIP STAR PATRON by making a monthly pledge to get access to my best quality content before anyone else + earn some good REWARDS. Click PLEDGE If you also missed my MOTIVATIONAL live webinar and want to watch THE NAKED CHALLENGE 101 Webinar Video. Please click ACCESS to download the and learn my 10 BASIC MIND STRATEGY on how to accomplish real GOALS.

Don't forget to call in and catch me on Talk Wednesday and Friday Radio SpecialLIVE @ 9pm (GMT) on THE NAKED TALK Internet Radio Show. Its always a stimulating conversation with my guests. .



NOTE : Join Me In My Effort To Change The World With My Empowering Thoughts. If You Like Today's 'Update'....Then Don't Forget To Comment and Share It With Those You Love (Or Even Like A Lot).

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Monday, 9 November 2015

The Power Of Affirmation... And The 22 Things I Tell Myself Always


One of the reasons why people never finish what they started is a FEAR that culminates from self doubt. And as a Multi Platform Ambassador for Self Empowerment and Transformation...I recognise that the MIND is a powerful tool for building the life we want, because what we THINK...is actually what we BECOME. And that's where AFFIRMATION plays a big role in re-shaping and purifying our thoughts, and how we see ourselves. Remember when a black man with African origins first imagined he could run for the US Presidency?...with one simple sentence "YES, WE CAN..." a powerful mantra, Barrack Obama used as a language to drive CHANGE which became a magnificent source of belief, not only to his die-hard supporters, but even his doubters.

In the last two years, since re-inventing myself...I have achieved so much, I never even imagined I could accomplish ALONE by myself...But I did, because I got tired of doubting myself the same way many doubted me and my competence. And I needed to change the way I viewed myself. If I could at least count on one person not to betray me...I should be able to count on myself...only if I could learn to trust myself, my intuition and my VISION enough to realise that I am CAPABLE of anything...And I have not looked back ever since. Affirmation is simply the practice of positive declaration and self empowerment that springs from confidence about your own journey.

It fosters a belief that helps create the narrative we want for our lives. These belief reminds us that anything is possible and we are capable of manifesting great results, because a positive mind translates to a positive attitude...that ultimately helps us achieve SUCCESS in anything. Just like when I told myself I could design a website...And I did...I said I could host a radio show with global guests from around the world, I did...or when I told myself, I could write a book, I did...and I could have it in the biggest book stores around the world...I did it too...All by myself 100%.

Affirmations do indeed strengthen us by helping us believe in the potential of an ACTION we desire to manifest. So when we verbally affirm our dreams and ambitions, we are instantly empowered with a deep sense of reassurance that our wishful words will indeed become REALITY. Just like when I tell my five year old, "Hey Ray, c'mon now you can do it..." and he says..."Yes mummy, I can do it"...He struggles with it...but he does it.

Affirmations are proven methods of self-improvement because of their ability to rewire our brains. Much like exercise, they raise the level of feel-good hormones and push our brains to form new clusters of only "positive thoughts".

So here are 22 things I tell myself every other day...You may find some power in these words...

#1) Today, I wake up with strength in my heart and CLARITY in my mind. I'm thankful, I have direction.

#2) I know what I want and I'm ready to go after it 100%.

#3) I am not afraid to walk new terrains and try NEW things.

#4) I am SUPERIOR to negative thoughts and negative actions.

#5) I am a CAPABLE leader and I confidently meet all the challenges I face.

#6) I have been given endless TALENTS beyond what people imagine about me... and I am proud to utilize them today.

#7) I APPROVE of myself just the way I am.

#8) Happiness is a CHOICE. And I have chosen to base my happiness on my own accomplishments and the blessings I've been given.

#9) I BELIEVE in myself and what I am trying to achieve.

#10) I am AMAZING and I do super amazing things everyday.

#11) My ability to CONQUER my challenges are limitless; my potential to succeed is infinite.

#12) I am Powerful, Genuine and Authentic. I am not afraid to strip off my mask and be NAKED.

#13) Many people look up to me, they recognise my ability and my WORTH; For this, I am ADMIRED and I don't take it for granted.

#14) I am energetic, goal driven and PASSIONATE. I believe in the future I am trying to create.

#15) I fear nothing...And I am not ashamed to be Transparent or show how COURAGEOUS I am.

#16) I am CONFIDENT in my ability to meet new people, make deeper connections and change the world one alliance at a time.

#17) I am a powerhouse; I am INDESTRUCTIBLE. Don't bother trying to tear me down. I won't bulge. I won't give in.

#18) I FORGIVE those who have hurt me in the past...I refuse to give them power over me and I'm happy to peacefully detach myself from them.

#19) I am GUIDED in my every step by Spirit, who leads me towards what I must know and must do. And yes, I do!

#20) I radiate beauty, charm, and GRACE. With this in mind. I know I am more than enough to those who value me.

#21) I allow a river of compassion wash away my anger and replace it with love. I am not afraid to love, be loved or represent LOVE.

#22) I am at peace with all that has happened, is happening, and will happen. My FEARS of tomorrow are simply melting away.

So Lovelies, how do you see yourself? How do you communicate your desires and translate it to the universe?.

The art of the spoken word is critical in crafting our future. As an EXPRESSIONIST, it is my firm belief that we influence the universe by what we speak because WORDS have power. If you constantly say "I can't," the energy of your words will repel the universe against you. But if you say "I can!" the universe will endow you with the abilities to do just that. So be BOLD and speak away your desires; relinquish your fears. Say your affirmations with CONVICTION, say it in your own unique voice, and make it happen in the real world. Can you? Will you?

Don't forget to RSVP for my Free Upcoming Live Webinar - THE NAKED CHALLENGE 102: "How To Finish What You Started..." this Saturday, 21 November 2015....and get empowered to achieve results for your own goals.

Have you grabbed your own copy of my Widely Anticipated New Book- THE NAKED TRUTH: Lies Stripped... The Reviews are great. Just Visit my OFFICIAL WEBSITE,  or BUY @ AMAZONSMASHWORD, BARNES & NOBLE or PayHip and GUMROAD.  It is an Intimate & Relatable guide to the crazy TRUTH about Love, Life, Relationship, Sex & Reality. It offers WISDOM to those who are struggling to accept the truth about who they really are and different aspects of their life.  Get it and please let me know what you think.




P.S: If You love what I do...You can become a VIP STAR PATRON by making a monthly pledge to get access to my best quality content before anyone else + earn some good REWARDS. Click PLEDGE If you also missed my MOTIVATIONAL live webinar and want to watch THE NAKED CHALLENGE 101 Webinar Video. Please click ACCESS to download the and learn my 10 BASIC MIND STRATEGY on how to accomplish real GOALS.

Don't forget to call in and catch me on Talk Wednesday and Friday Radio SpecialLIVE @ 9pm (GMT) on THE NAKED TALK Internet Radio Show. Its always a stimulating conversation with my guests. .



NOTE : Join Me In My Effort To Change The World With My Empowering Thoughts. If You Like Today's 'Alex's Daily Boost'....Then Don't Forget To Comment and Share It With Those You Love (Or Even Like A Lot).

Got A Question? Feel Free To #AskAlexHere. If You Want Some Talk Therapy Instead, Then Take Advantage of my Private One-on-One and Book an appointment with #AskAlex using SetMore NOW!!!

Have A Magnificent Monday Lovelies. Kisses!!!
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Wednesday, 4 November 2015

How These 60 Tips For A Stunning Life, Reinforces Mine...


Happy New Month Lovelies! I know its the fourth day of November. So here are my sincerest apologies that this post is coming a few days later than I intended to share...but attending the COSON Week events, have had me all locked down and I'm having to choose which of my passions have my immediate ATTENTION. (Not an easy call to make) And though...Sometimes, I wonder since I don't have all the money in the world...In fact, I don't have nearly as much as I believe I'm really worth.. Still, If I take into perspective the myriads of domestic challenges that crop up everyday, busy work schedules and an infinite STRUGGLE to reach a life balance. Why does it feel like, somewhere in the midst of all that craziness, I feel so bloody HAPPY? Like I'm spinning in a big lottery cavern. Its like I have entered a place of contentment with 'The Naked Movement'? Or is it the Awareness and Transformation I have experienced from EXPRESSION and gaining a presence of mind? Why does it feel like I'm suddenly living an Enlightened Life? The 'Perfect' life... One with VISION and direction.

Well, I recently received these great tips by ROBIN SHARMA (One of the world's most Celebrated Leadership Coach, International Speaker & Best Selling Author) in an Email Newsletter sent to me by Dr Jitesh Arora (Author of The Self Esteem Guide) and thought to share it with you. This list of tips, reinforces the fundamentals and importance that ensures a successful career and a POSITIVE perspective on life. And It's Amazing how I'm actually living my life based on 90% of this list. Even though it was originally written in 2010 and I only recently saw it for the first time on Friday. This is a current reflection of my LIFE. And reading through this list, I'm proud of my own personal GROWTH.


So do you also want a Stunning Life? One you can be proud of? Well, here are 60 Amazing Tips to Ponder Over...


#1. Exercise Daily. - ( Some years back, I used to teach Pilates at my Mother's gym. Of course I can't hold on to that past glory since the birth of Ray and my crazy busy schedule.  But I remember it being my healthiest sexiest period in time. And I'm getting back in the grind because my body is my tool and it is ultra important to feel and look healthy. It can save your life)

#2. Get serious about Gratitude. - (I have learned how important it is to show gratitude Whether it is for a glass of cold water, An email sent to me by a loyal blog reader, a comment on my facebook photo. someone seeking my expert advice, offers me a gift, friendship or even a compliment. I have learned to show appreciation and gratitude because a gracious attitude is an incredibly attractive one).

#3. See your Work as a Craft. - (I take pride in all the talents I have been blessed with, and the amazing skills I have acquired and mastered over time. I no longer take them for granted because I understand I have a lot to offer the world. Money might be important, but I truly believe that to achieve the great life balance, you need to actually love and master what you do – work included).

#4. Expect the Best and prepare for the Worst. - (I've had arguments with a close friend who thinks I'm pessimistic and another friend who thinks I'm too optimistic...Hahaha. And while trying to argue with them, that there were both WRONG I understand why now...I always want the best and go all the way 100% for it...but I also share a private truth with myself that anything can go wrong. And if you keep an open mind, then you understand the possibilities of things not turning out the way you planned...and you must be ready to accept the things you can't control or change).

#5. Keep a journal. (Check! Check! Check! Viola! Isn't that what this blog is?....An Internet journal)

#6. Read “The Autobiography of Benjamin Franklin”.

#7. Plan a schedule for your week. (Not always on top of it. Used to be the spontaneous type. But now, I always have a sketchy idea of my plans. You can check my events page for my official weekly schedule at my official website).

#8. Know the 5 highest priorities of your Life. ( I do...For me its...God, Ray (My son), Work, Family, and my Vision,

#9. Say no to Distractions. (I cut down on attending events and public functions. Actually I cut it out entirely to guard my mystery and also friends who are distracting to create time and room for accomplishing my goals. Look how much I have achieved so far...).

#10. Drink a lot of water. (My favourite all time drink...People wonder why my skin is 'almost' flawless...And i Say almost...Hahaha....That's my secret beauty tip. I drink gallons).

#11. Improve your work every Single Day. - (People say my writing has improved in folds, my blog keeps looking better, there's always something to tweak and I'm always looking for new ideas and ways to make my brand better.)

#12. Get a Mentor. (Every single person has someone they admire. There's nothing wrong in mastering and following the path of someone you admire, just as long as you remember to leave your own footprint).

#13. Hire a Coach. (People especially Africans are yet to understand the importance of financially investing in yourself by actually hiring a coach for their expert advice and guidance. No one knows it all. And there's nothing wrong in getting direction from someone who has been there, done that and knows it better than you, for a FEE...because you are worth the investment and what you pay for, you tend to value more).

#14. Get up at 5 am each day. (Well that's me. I sleep late and wake up early. Show me one successful person who doesn't. Its the best time of the day to get your thoughts together and visualize your goals or mission for the day).

#15. Eat less Food.

#16. Find more Heroes.

#17. Be a Hero to Someone. (I'm happy when I feel like I have saved a soul, whether its with my blog articles, podcast or webinars. The thought that someone considers my contributions to them, as life saving...That gives me Joy because I am a Hero).

#18. Smile at Strangers. (I long stopped being the ice queen....I smile as often as I need to and guess what? People love my smile).

#19. Be the most Ethical Person you Know. (Oh well, this is self explanatory I have never showed up somewhere unannounced. I never call before or after a certain time of the day unless its an emergency...and lets just say i never sit unless I'm invited to. Some don't like it. But that's how i have being raised. I won't go into your kitchen or bathroom unless you permit me to...and I will never touch something that doesn't belong to me, unless my intuition directs me otherwise).

#20. Don’t settle for anything less than Excellence. (Check! Check! Check! I don't strive for perfection ..it doesn't exist. but I do live for EXCELLENCE).

#21. Savor life’s simplest pleasures. (Yes, I am learning to)

#22. Save 10% of your income each Month. (This is an area of new wisdom. I have learned the hard way...)

#23. Spend time at art Galleries.

#24. Walk in the Woods.

#25. Write thank you notes or email to those who’ve helped you. ( Once in a while, I like to let people know how I feel about them and thank them for helping me, If they have... Writing to them is a great medium of communication, because it is their proof of your sincere gratitude and appreciation).

#26. Forgive those who’ve wronged you. (For this I have 'A' record in forgiving others. I bear no grudges. As difficult as it might seem...My spirit is free. And so I have learned to let go of any emotional baggage weighing me down).

#27. Remember that leadership is about influence and impact, not title and accolades. (Yup! I have never cared whether people remember me as an Actress or refer to me as Author or their favourite Blogger or Voice Artiste...I don't even care about being a founder with 20 million staff or 10 Executive PA's or an Award winning this, a Best selling that...A Mrs Nobody or a Miss Somebody...I only care about being Alex Okoroji the one who influences lives positively using every medium at her disposal).

#28. Create unforgettable moments with those you love. (I have a lot of those moments with my son, Ray..and I'm starting to create them with the rest of my family).

#29. Have 5 great Friends. (I don't keep that many close friends despite being surrounded by lots of acquaintances and well wishers. But I do have a few good people who will continue to remain my best buddies for Life)

#30. Become stunningly Polite.

#31. Unplug your TV. (Geez! This is a must for Entrepreneurs, Solopreneurs and Content/ idea creators. I'm a TV Gal. But I have to admit that watching Television is a huge DISTRACTION. Since I turned off mine. I stopped getting carried away by my favorite soap opera or reality TV. I have more time to create more content and build my brand...and yes, the results are evident. I only watch a few hours during the weekend. And those moments when I'm somewhere I have no control over the TV there, Let's be honest...The moment I steal a few minutes watching...I practically stay glued...and end up achieving nothing for the rest of my time there.).

#32. Sell your TV. (Hahaha...well I didn't need to sell my mine. I just grew accustomed to living with it turned off in my bedroom and work space).


#33. Read Daily. (Check! Check! Check! I can't reiterate how much  developing a reading habit will save your life. It has saved mine. In fact that is the biggest secret of my transformation).

#34. Avoid the News. (Too much negative news, half of which is gossip... influences and dampens the spirit. How will you feel motivated with so much sad or gory news coming from the media? You don't want to walk around with all that negativity. It isn't productive).

#35. Be content with what you have. (That I have embraced...And I am thankful)

#36. Pursue your Dreams. (Check! Check! Check! All the wayyyyyyyy!!).

#37. Be Authentic. (Be NAKED...be Real... Be You...need I say more?)

#38. Be Passionate. (Is that me or what? Check! Check! Check! Yup! I am a friggin' Passionista!)

339. Apologise when you know you should. (I have learned that the hard way too.I am not ashamed to say, I'm sorry when I should. it takes nothing away from you. Nothing!)

#40. Never miss a moment to celebrate another. (What do you think the idea behind my Talk Radio Show is?...I'm constantly celebrating people and their experiences. Check! #wink).

#41. Have a vision for your life. (Oh Yes, I do...A big Fat Massive Vision)

#42. Know your strengths. (Check! Check! Check! And I'm no longer afraid to let my strength SHINE through)

#43. Focus your mind on the good versus the lack. (Oh yes, if you spend your time thinking about the things you don't have, you'll never have enough, neither will you ever be happy.The trick is that I FOCUS on everything good that I have...that I am.)

#44. Be Patient. (I'm not the most patient person...but having a child and starting a business teaches you patience. I learned the hard way).

#45. Don’t give up. (A lot of people commend me all the time for my tenacity, drive and commitment to my passion. Well I have been known to never give up...Instead, I give in...I give in everything I have...100% all of my best).

#46. Clean up your messes. (If I mess up...I know I have to figure a way to take care of it. I don't allow a string of unattended issues, I try to address them and make up, where I need to. Its that simple...because no matter how long or how far you run, that shit isn't going anywhere...your crap will be waiting patiently for you).

#47. Use impeccable words.

#48. Travel more. (I'm trying to see the world from other peoples eyes.And if you can't afford to travel a lot. Then read books and journals...Let your mind travel.The world is now a global village. You can have a deep perspective of different cultures, countries or its people... by reading and networking with different people of different races...either on social media or the internet. And you can learn a lot from these interactions).

#49. Read “As You Think”. (Working on this...looking to buy the EBook version)

#50. Honor your Parents. (I am the quintessential Daddy's girl...Yes I am proud...and I'm Mom's best friend too...Hahaha. Honor and value your parents. I value mine exponentially).

#51. Tip taxi drivers Well. (Yes, you should.. Mr Chris can testify to this. I'm generous on my lazy days when I don't feel like driving..)

#52. Be a great Teammate. (Once you understand that 'individually' you are just a drop of water....Together, you are an Ocean...you'll appreciate the value of what you can achieve if you collaborate easily with others, to achieve a goal).

#53. Give no energy to Critics. (Love yourself...Know yourself. Once you do...What others think of you will have no impact on your mission to succeed).

#54. Spend time in the Mountains. (Err...eem...This must somehow be connected to experiencing solitude and nature...I'll work on this)

#55. Know your top 5 Values. (Check! Check! Check! I value Creativity, Honesty, Commitment, Integrity and Hardwork).

#56. Shift from being busy to achieving results. (That's me alright! I spent so many years...BUSY doing nothing.Oh! And that's a lot of people out there too. Pretending to be busy whilst Faking it to make it. But in the last 2 years, I have shifted my focus from being ACTIVE to actually achieving RESULTS. You should rent or buy my webinar tutorial video - THE NAKED CHALLENGE 101: From Idealist to Realist at my Creator Store)

#57. Innovate and iterate. (Check! Check! Check! I am a basket of Ideas...and I keep innovating content and products...And I'll never stop).

#58. Speak less. Listen more. (Strangely, people never believed I used to listen. Until I'm quiet...then they think something is amiss. A lot of people get this confused all the time. The fact that someone hears you doesn't mean they are listening...or that they are quiet, doesn't mean they aren't tuning you out. I think this tip isn't saying be quiet. Don't have a voice. Its actually saying speak less of what you know...and listen out for what you don't... For its important to PAY more ATTENTION to the things others have to say or don't say. You'll learn a lot when you are at the receiving end).

#59. Be the best person you know. (That's my ultimate goal....)

#60. Make your life matter. (Absolutely!)
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So which of these are you currently incorporating into your life? Which of these are you yet to embrace. Feel free to share your thoughts with me...I'd love to know.


Have you grabbed your own copy of my Widely Anticipated New Book- THE NAKED TRUTH: Lies Stripped... The Reviews are great. Just Visit my OFFICIAL WEBSITE,  or BUY @ AMAZONSMASHWORD, BARNES & NOBLE or PayHip and GUMROAD.  It is an Intimate & Relatable guide to the crazy TRUTH about Love, Life, Relationship, Sex & Reality. It offers WISDOM to those who are struggling to accept the truth about who they really are and different aspects of their life.  Get it and please let me know what you think.




P.S: If You love what I do...You can become a VIP STAR PATRON by making a monthly pledge to get access to my best quality content before anyone else + earn some good REWARDS. Click PLEDGE If you also missed my MOTIVATIONAL live webinar and want to watch THE NAKED CHALLENGE 101 Webinar Video. Please click ACCESS to download the and learn my 10 BASIC MIND STRATEGY on how to accomplish real GOALS.

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