Saturday, 21 May 2016

Being Vulnerable Takes More Courage...


Two days ago, on The Ms Reason Show in the US, I told the amazing host, Marie Summers that I'm not a weak woman who needs to learn how to be strong...But in fact, a STRONG woman who is learning how to be vulnerable. - {The underlining reason for why I advocate for EXPRESSION} You can listen to my Interview HERE.

We are constantly told to be strong, how to keep it in, SUCK it up, bear it all, don't complain, tolerant the things we can't handle and not shed a single tear. And that's the number one reason for why there are so many broken people with suppressed emotions and psychopaths trolling, who never got a chance to exorcise their demons and ghosts from the past.

But I have learned that vulnerability is emotional exposure. it is the core of the heart, the center of meaningful human experience... and sometimes, strength isn't in how tough you are on the outside, but how COURAGEOUS you are to exhibit your vulnerability and transparency on the inside, especially in a world... where many MASK who they really are, what they really want and how they really 'feel' about life. MANY!!!

I can't help but respect a person, who is not afraid to EXPRESS love, even when they know the other person might NOT reciprocate & love them back. It takes courage. Damn IT!

Or someone who is not ashamed to sincerely APOLOGISE for their wrongs, without being prodded because their conscience and relationships are way more important that their EGO. That also takes courage.

The one who is not embarrassed to ASK for help, because their determination to resolve a problem, achieve a goal or reach a destination is far more important than the FEAR of rejection, failure or mockery they might attract. Oh dang, that surely takes courage.

So you see, It doesn't take strength... it actually takes being VULNERABLE to Ask Questions, Seek Answers, Show Empathy, Feel Regret, Trust or EXPRESS Love. There are too many emotions that don't require strength, including finding 'HAPPINESS'. because it is not easy to put yourself out there, knowing you could easily be hurt, attacked or harmed.

Still, rather than protect ourselves from impending disaster, we take a leap of FAITH knowing its impossible to experience genuine emotion, without taking any risk... because vulnerability is the only bridge to build AUTHENTIC connection.

So, before you mock someone for revealing these part of themselves, ask yourself, if YOU indeed are COURAGEOUS enough to be as open and as vulnerable as they have been with you.

I'm curious to know the ANSWER to that. Shoot me a reply!

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