Friday, 29 January 2016

PODCAST 047: Let's Talk Sex, Mindset & Manhood with Popular American Relationship Expert & Talk Radio Host - Steve Williams


Holy Dang! I chuckled and CACKLED all the way through this show. From learning the difference between Men and Males, The Five Play (Foreplay) and teasing the "LIPS" between her ears and not between her thighs. To how a couple can get DOWN & DIRTY the right way. 'The Dean' took my listeners on a CRAZY mindset journey about SEX & Manhood. And he kept it 100% REAL, no cover ups.

Exploring that road map to manhood, It is sometimes safe for most MEN to assume that what is difficult for them is difficult for every other man, which isn’t true. A man might also assume that what seems easy to him might in fact be EASY for every other man, which is also not true. And what isnt't true either is that there's a standard 'One-Size-Fits-All' manual for relating with women or keeping it spicy in the BEDROOM. Today's guest is an expert in relationships of all stages, who teaches men and women how to unplug themselves from the dating matrix to the challenging pretzels of marital life with my guest- Popular American Relationship Expert & Talk Radio Host- STEVE 'The Dean' WILLIAMS live all the way from Texas, USA on THE NAKED TALK w/ Alex Okoroji

Feel free to connect with Steve Williams at his Website @ www.TheManMindset.com

If you missed the show LIVE, You can still LISTEN to the Archived Show here at my Radio Channel. Or you can SEARCH for my syndicated podcast on any of your favorite Internet Radio Platforms like Stitcher, ITunes or Tune-In Radio. Don't forget you can DOWNLOAD this episode to your device. You can also subscribe and leave your reviews on STITCHER and 

To Listen CLICK on The Player Below... NOW!



This EPISODE of #TNT 047 was brought to you by Zincha NaturalsHair'Volution Magazine and Qtaby Events .


So what do you think about our conversation, Truth-Seekers? Feel free to EXPRESS your thoughts. I Love You For Listening. Xx

And I look forward to hanging out with All VIP Stars from the Monday, 15 February 2016 in the Prestigious 'ALEX'S BLOG COMMUNITY' VIP Members Lounge. Want to get ACCESS to the VIP NAKED LOUNGE . and a 20% membership discount. Click GO EARLY NOW

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Have you grabbed your own copy of my Widely Anticipated New Book- THE NAKED TRUTH: Lies Stripped... The Reviews are great. Just Click my OFFICIAL WEBSITE,  or BUY @ AMAZONSMASHWORD, BARNES & NOBLE or PayHip and GUMROAD.  It is an Intimate & Relatable guide to the crazy TRUTH about Love, Life, Relationship, Sex, Reality & Re-invention of self. It offers WISDOM to those who are struggling to accept the truth about who they really are and different aspects of their life.  Get it and please let me know what you think about it.




P.S: If You love what I do...You can become a VIP STAR PATRON by making a monthly pledge to get access to my best quality content before anyone else + earn some good REWARDS. Click PLEDGE If you also missed my MOTIVATIONAL live webinar and want to watch THE NAKED CHALLENGE 101 Webinar Video. Please click ACCESS to download the and learn my 10 BASIC MIND STRATEGY on how to accomplish real GOALS.

Don't forget to call in and catch me on Talk Wednesday and Friday Radio SpecialLIVE @ 9pm (GMT) on THE NAKED TALK Internet Radio Show. Its always a stimulating conversation with my guests. .



NOTE : Join Me In My Effort To Change The World With My Empowering Thoughts. If You Like Today's 'Podcast'....Then Don't Forget To Comment and Share It With Those You Love (Or Even Like A Lot).

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PODCAST 046: Beauty, Women & Ageing In An Age Phobic Society w/ American Author & Life Coach - Nina Bingham


If you have ever struggled with competing & comparing yourself with other women. Or fear losing the power of your beauty...or have people constantly JUDGE you for how you look, or try to guess your age and limit expectations of you to a certain age bracket, then you need to LISTEN to this very POWERFUL, Enlightening & Interesting Conversation about Women, Beauty & Ageing in an Age-Phobic society.

Ever really thought about Women and Ageing? Well, Nobody likes to think about it, because it makes an awful lot of women uncomfortable to imagine themselves growing OLD, losing their APPEAL and changing. Now beauty is a part of every woman's healthy self-esteem. We all know that (hair, makeup and style is important at any age). Still in celebration of her 52nd Birthday, one amazing woman has made a monumental decision to age Gracefully, by not dying her hair anymore, but to let it grow out GREY. I was excited to chat with one of my favourite re-occurring Guest, American Author, Life Coach & Clinical Hypnotherapist - NINA BINGHAM, as we highlighted the beauty in the cracks and why the way we look, shouldn't be the only reasons, women can feel good about themselves as they age, as well as her reason for transitioning to Grey Hair.

Feel free to connect with Nina Bingham at her Life Coaching Website @ www.Living-Enlightened.org or her personal BLOG www.NinaBingham.blogspot.com or Twitter: @Liv_Enlightened

If you missed the show LIVE, You can still LISTEN to the Archived Show here at my Radio Channel. Or you can SEARCH for my syndicated podcast on any of your favorite Internet Radio Platforms like Stitcher, ITunes or Tune-In Radio. Don't forget you can DOWNLOAD this episode to your device. You can also subscribe and leave your reviews on STITCHER and 

To Listen CLICK on The Player Below... NOW!



This EPISODE of #TNT 046 was brought to you by Zincha NaturalsHair'Volution Magazine and Qtaby Events .


So what do you think about our conversation, Truth-Seekers? Feel free to EXPRESS your thoughts. I Love You For Listening. Xx

And I look forward to hanging out with All VIP Stars from the Monday, 15 February 2016 in the Prestigious 'ALEX'S BLOG COMMUNITY' VIP Members Lounge. Want to get ACCESS to the VIP NAKED LOUNGE . and a 20% membership discount. Click GO EARLY NOW

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Have you grabbed your own copy of my Widely Anticipated New Book- THE NAKED TRUTH: Lies Stripped... The Reviews are great. Just Click my OFFICIAL WEBSITE,  or BUY @ AMAZONSMASHWORD, BARNES & NOBLE or PayHip and GUMROAD.  It is an Intimate & Relatable guide to the crazy TRUTH about Love, Life, Relationship, Sex, Reality & Re-invention of self. It offers WISDOM to those who are struggling to accept the truth about who they really are and different aspects of their life.  Get it and please let me know what you think about it.




P.S: If You love what I do...You can become a VIP STAR PATRON by making a monthly pledge to get access to my best quality content before anyone else + earn some good REWARDS. Click PLEDGE If you also missed my MOTIVATIONAL live webinar and want to watch THE NAKED CHALLENGE 101 Webinar Video. Please click ACCESS to download the and learn my 10 BASIC MIND STRATEGY on how to accomplish real GOALS.

Don't forget to call in and catch me on Talk Wednesday and Friday Radio SpecialLIVE @ 9pm (GMT) on THE NAKED TALK Internet Radio Show. Its always a stimulating conversation with my guests. .



NOTE : Join Me In My Effort To Change The World With My Empowering Thoughts. If You Like Today's 'Podcast'....Then Don't Forget To Comment and Share It With Those You Love (Or Even Like A Lot).

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Thursday, 21 January 2016

GUEST POST: A Blind Man Says Affirmations Are Darn Hard...


Oh yeah, he's blind. But anyone who has paid close attention to me recently, must probably know how much I admire the very celebrated Blind blogger, Motivational speaker and Author of the book "Leading You Out Of The Darkness Into The Light" - MAXWELL IVEY. So much so that I invited him as a guest on my talk radio show twice last year, and he was one of those, who helped me break the internet on my First Anniversary Celebration in December . As my blog turns two years old this week...To some its just two years, but to me its 734 days of consistently promoting a message of Consciousness and Awareness, while positively affirming the belief that I am destined for so much GREATNESS and that I have what it takes to not only transform my life, but the lives of many others globally.

I have never hidden the fact that I am a big fan of those who work hard to IMPROVE on themselves and their GOALS, no matter how big or little. And because of that, I've developed a great friendship with Maxwell from the far ends of Texas where he lives to where I am here in Nigeria, two different continents, but it didn't deter our constant exchange of emails back and forth, and that uncanny reverberation of his POSITIVE personality and unbelievable COURAGE which takes away all of the excuses I have for why I can't do more than I already am. And through that journey, I have become privy to the development, as well as the content of his upcoming book due for release later this year. His book - "It's Not The Cookie, It's The Jar..." has opened my mind to so much about life, especially from the perspective of a blind man, as I read chapter after chapter and share my thoughts with him.

So while I've recently been talking to my younger sister about building positive affirmations, and how it may help one overcome the challenges of SELF DOUBT and negative self image, Maxwell decides to send me a new chapter in line with my current mindset...And as usual I read it...BANG! There it was...a very AUTHENTIC & relatable piece about affirmations. It sort of reminded me about a post I wrote last year in November. So if you missed that blog post, you can read THE POWER OF AFFIRMATION...AND THE 22 THINGS I TELL MYSELF ALWAYS....but not until, after you have read MAXWELL IVEY's amazing guest post and have signed up for his mailing list at his website www.TheBlindBlogger.net and win his amazing 'Thank you' gift.

So I have to warn you, that Max is a long winded writer just like myself. But this guest post is WORTH every single word and time you'll spend reading it. Thank me later. He he he.

Affirmations Are Hard


"You have probably heard about using affirmations to help you change your outlook and improve your life. Its well documented that they work. There is both religious and medical proof that they are effective for people who can commit to using them. But I think people make it sound way to easy. I mean its one thing to go around thinking, believing, and speaking positive energy over your life when you are a success or when your life is going well. But what do you do when everything around you and everything you have ever been taught says you are a worthless failure and you should just be happy with what you do have. So, I'm going to try to give you an approach to affirmations that will really work. The image came to me when thinking about a time from my childhood. I was living in South Carolina and going to a new school because my dad had moved us there to be closer to the Ivey side of the family. 
There was an old fashioned see saw or teeter totter in the playground area. I would sit on it, but could never go up and down because quite frankly I was just too fat. One day some of the kids wanted to see how many of them it would take to raise me up. I don't know how many kids it took, but every inch of the opposite bar was covered. It was fun for just a second feeling the thrill of going up and down. Then they laughed at me. I realized it was a big joke, and I cried about it. I don't tell you this story to get your sympathy. One, because I'm no longer that person. I'm a physically healthy guy in the best shape of his life. I love my body, and others tell me I can be proud of it and the work that it took to get here. And two, because I want you to see that if you add enough good to one side it will balance out the bad on the other.

So, maybe you aren't ready to go around saying I am amazing, I am talented, I get whatever I go after, I have all the money I need, etc. Maybe you grew up with parents who constantly told you you were ugly, fat, stupid, clumsy, or a mistake. Maybe nothing you have ever tried has been a success. Maybe no one has ever come along to tell you just how special you are. Then start with what you can do.

First, when you have a negative thought; try not to speak it out loud. I know that our thoughts are with us all day long. The things we say to ourselves in our heads are often much worse than anything anyone else will say to our faces. But voicing these thoughts out loud gives them power. It makes the hurt far more painful and more difficult to overcome. Try to catch yourself before blurting these hurtful thoughts out loud. Whenever you stop yourself from thinking or saying something hurtful, you make the job of balancing your life and your emotions so much easier. Its much easier to clean up a mess you never made.

But if you can't stop yourself, and no one can completely avoid negative thoughts; then the next best thing is to balance them out with positive thoughts, words, and energy. From now on follow every negative statement up with at least one positive one. If you burn the toast, and you yell I am so stupid. Then follow it up with I am intelligent but am trying to do too many things at once. If you look in the mirror, and say I am so ugly. Then balance that out with I am beautiful. I have many quality traits. I have great beauty it just hasn't been seen by people who can appreciate my beauty. If you start the day by asking why am I always so tired. Tell yourself that I am an energetic person. I have all the energy I need to accomplish all of my tasks with joy and ease. Eventually, you will get to the point where you follow a negative with a whole string of positive thoughts and words. And of course, I want you to get to that point where you virtually eliminate the negative thoughts and words from your life all together. 
I want you to see yourself as a wonderful blessed amazing human being. I want you to accept yourself as the perfect child of a most high God. And even if you don't believe in a God, you can believe that you are the person you want to be. You know that there is a version of yourself that you were meant to become. And you know some or most of the things you need to do to become that person. Learning how to remove the negative self talk from your life and replacing it with positive uplifting empowering affirmations is a huge step towards becoming your ideal self. And since your goal here is losing weight and keeping it off; this change in your outlook through positive thoughts and words will be a powerful tool in your journey to become healthier and get to your best weight.

Now, that we have talked about ending negative self talk and replacing it with positive loving affirmations; we need to address the other voices in your world. Who do you surround yourself with? Do you hang out with positive people who are taking action in their lives and responsibility for their happiness? Or are your friends mostly negative, depressed, going no where types of people? The old saying is true if you lye down with dogs you will wake up with fleas. The people you surround yourself with can either support and encourage you or drag you down with them. As you grow in confidence in yourself you will probably start to feel conflicts with many of the people you have known for a long time and with whom you routinely associate. You will have to decide which is more important your good health and spiritual progress or the comfort of an old friend who does not have your best interest at heart. I know it isn't easy to stop hanging out with people you have known for years. But you can at least start by inviting some new friends who are healthy into your life. 
This will at least balance your life out some. Best case would be to remove these negative toxic people from your life all together. But if you aren't ready to do that, then here is a lesser alternative. Just make it known that you aren't going to allow them to speak hurtful noise in your presence. Don't allow them to say mean defeatist things to you, about you, or about themselves in your presence. This isn't being mean to them, its being loving to yourself. You can only allow so much negative energy into your life before it starts to effect you and keep you from your goals. Ideally, we would have no one in our lives that isn't supportive of us and our goals and dreams. I know this isn't practical. However, you can limit it as much as possible and you can balance it out with as many positive people and as much powerful energy as possible. We can't keep out all the darkness and rain, but we can sure keep ourselves happier by letting in as much sunshine as we can find.

For example I have a brother who I live with. He is very passionate about sports and politics. Sometimes, I have to put on my headphones, close the door to my room, or go out to the garage to get some time away from him. He isn't always the most positive person. However, I find that the more time he spends around me the better he has gotten. He knows I'm a very positive person and that I won't stand for anyone putting themselves down in my presence. He knows that I will point out the good in a bad situation. I have more practice at it than he does. But he's learning. Your friends and family will either learn or they will stop coming around you as much. The point is to be successful at anything you have to have a lot of help. You need all the positive voices in your head you can get. You need people who will encourage and support you or help you solve problems. You don't need people saying you've failed over and over again so why are you even trying to lose weight. I encourage you to invite at least one new uplifting person into your life even if you have to ask someone you know online. I find the blogosphere very supportive and helpful so maybe its a great place to find such a friend. I hope you will continue to do things like this to balance your life and give you a chance for real long lasting success.

Sometimes, we are so stuck in our own image of ourselves that we can't find the positive. Sometimes, it takes the clear vision of a loving friend to show us just how special we are and help us start the process of improving our self image and changing our self talk. I know you think that I am a very self assured person, but there are areas where I lack confidence in myself. For example it took months before I would believe my friends who were telling me to share my story more. They kept telling me that my life was very inspirational. I didn't see myself as anything special I thought I'm a guy who shows up every day and works his but off to build a business that will allow him to support his family. I thought I don't do anything special I just find a way to accomplish the next task in front of me whatever that may be. I have learned how to do a lot of things I had never tried before simply because I had to. I didn't have anyone to do them for me and couldn't afford to hire someone either. But my friends finally convinced me that I am special. 
They explained that there are so many people out there who have no physical disability who fail to take action to improve their lives or live the ones they do have. They said Max the fact that you could sit at home on the couch, watching television, and eating junk food; is the reason why your story is important to tell. Because no one would think less of me if I had done that. So, I now realize just how big a deal it is to be one of the few that goes after his goals even when they are hard. But I wouldn't have seen this in myself without some great friends.

Once, I figured it out; I started taking steps to share my story and help inspire others. I wrote and self published my first ebook Leading You Out of the Darkness Into the Light a Blind Man's Inspirational Guide to Success. I've written guest posts and been interviewed for a major magazine. I've done podcasts, radio shows, and online summits. I am not sharing this to brag but to show what can happen when you change how you see yourself. Once you start to get a different picture of who you are and just how special this person is; then you will start to think better thoughts, use better words, and take more positive action. You will not only do more and think better of yourself, but you will find new parts to your personality. You will discover new talents, abilities, and skills. You will find you have the ability to learn many new things. And you will see more opportunities open up. This will happen partly because you are open to them but mainly because everyone who comes in contact with you will be able to sense that you are a living growing adapting, expanding, achieving kind of person.

So, I hope this brings home the value of having great friends around you. I haven't changed. I'm still the same person I was before. The difference is that now I appreciate just how special I am. This is something that happened because I had people in my life online and off who wanted good things for me. They saw the best in my personality and convinced me of it. I would still be working hard without their encouragement because that is who I am. But I wouldn't have realized just how special I am without their help. No matter how good a team is they still need cheerleaders and coaches to remind them of their ability and urge them to do even better in the future. Who do you have in your circle of friends. Are they cheering for you or for the other team. Are they helping you move forward or dragging you backwards? I hope you will follow my example here and not only bring some great new people into your life but listen to them when they tell you just how amazing you are."

So what do you think Lovelies? Are you Motivated? Feel free to EXPRESS your thoughts.

I look forward to hanging out with All VIP Stars from the Monday, 15 February 2016 in the Prestigious 'ALEX'S BLOG COMMUNITY' VIP Members Lounge. Want to get ACCESS to the VIP NAKED LOUNGE . and a 20% membership discount. Click GO EARLY NOW

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Have you grabbed your own copy of my Widely Anticipated New Book- THE NAKED TRUTH: Lies Stripped... The Reviews are great. Just Click my OFFICIAL WEBSITE,  or BUY @ AMAZONSMASHWORD, BARNES & NOBLE or PayHip and GUMROAD.  It is an Intimate & Relatable guide to the crazy TRUTH about Love, Life, Relationship, Sex & Reality. It offers WISDOM to those who are struggling to accept the truth about who they really are and different aspects of their life.  Get it and please let me know what you think.




P.S: If You love what I do...You can become a VIP STAR PATRON by making a monthly pledge to get access to my best quality content before anyone else + earn some good REWARDS. Click PLEDGE If you also missed my MOTIVATIONAL live webinar and want to watch THE NAKED CHALLENGE 101 Webinar Video. Please click ACCESS to download the and learn my 10 BASIC MIND STRATEGY on how to accomplish real GOALS.

Don't forget to call in and catch me on Talk Wednesday and Friday Radio SpecialLIVE @ 9pm (GMT) on THE NAKED TALK Internet Radio Show. Its always a stimulating conversation with my guests. .



NOTE : Join Me In My Effort To Change The World With My Empowering Thoughts. If You Like Today's 'Celebrity Guest Post'....Then Don't Forget To Comment and Share It With Those You Love (Or Even Like A Lot).

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Tuesday, 19 January 2016

PODCAST 045: Intercepting Life Through The Arts With British Nigerian Actor - OT Fagbenle


He's FUN, down to earth, drop dead handsome and very interesting...And yes, he is on Prime time TV, playing the lead as the big boss "Ash" in the popular BBC All Action Crime Drama Series- "The Interceptor" about a state-of-the-art law enforcement team whose unswerving MISSION is to hunt down some of Britain’s most dangerous and ruthless criminals. The son of a British mother & a Nigerian father (his name O-T stands for Olatunde), and he's best known in the US for his character in 'Looking' – HBO’s series about gay friends in San Francisco, Doctor Who, Hollyoaks, Walter’s War & many more.

As a lover of music, he has played the SAXOPHONE in bands across Europe, performing at the Edinburgh Festival, Wembley Arena, the Royal Albert Hall, and even touring Spain, lending his voice to radio, writing and directing short films. We reminisced about his early days in Nigeria and his love for music. But the biggest highlight of our radio conversation was when he took over, put me on the spot and CHALLENGED me LIVE on air, to achieve one of my biggest DESIRES. Which is learning how to play the guitar. So I know have a big task to learn the guitar before my first LIVE show in before 2017. How crazy is that? Hahaha.  Well, I was very excited to chat live with my Guest, Award Winning British Actor, Writer & Director - OT FAGBENLE. We had a great uncensored conversation on how he's been intercepting life with his love for the Arts...

If you missed the show LIVE, You can still LISTEN to the Archived Show here at my Radio Channel. Or you can SEARCH for my syndicated podcast on any of your favorite Internet Radio Platforms like Stitcher, ITunes or Tune-In Radio. Don't forget you can DOWNLOAD this episode to your device. You can also subscribe and leave your reviews on STITCHER and 

To Listen CLICK on The Player Below... NOW!



This EPISODE of #TNT 045 was brought to you by Zincha NaturalsHair'Volution Magazine and Qtaby Events .


So what do you think about our conversation, Truth-Seekers? Feel free to EXPRESS your thoughts. I Love You For Listening. Xx

And I look forward to hanging out with All VIP Stars from the Monday, 15 February 2016 in the Prestigious 'ALEX'S BLOG COMMUNITY' VIP Members Lounge. Want to get ACCESS to the VIP NAKED LOUNGE . and a 20% membership discount. Click GO EARLY NOW

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Have you grabbed your own copy of my Widely Anticipated New Book- THE NAKED TRUTH: Lies Stripped... The Reviews are great. Just Click my OFFICIAL WEBSITE,  or BUY @ AMAZONSMASHWORD, BARNES & NOBLE or PayHip and GUMROAD.  It is an Intimate & Relatable guide to the crazy TRUTH about Love, Life, Relationship, Sex & Reality. It offers WISDOM to those who are struggling to accept the truth about who they really are and different aspects of their life.  Get it and please let me know what you think.




P.S: If You love what I do...You can become a VIP STAR PATRON by making a monthly pledge to get access to my best quality content before anyone else + earn some good REWARDS. Click PLEDGE If you also missed my MOTIVATIONAL live webinar and want to watch THE NAKED CHALLENGE 101 Webinar Video. Please click ACCESS to download the and learn my 10 BASIC MIND STRATEGY on how to accomplish real GOALS.

Don't forget to call in and catch me on Talk Wednesday and Friday Radio SpecialLIVE @ 9pm (GMT) on THE NAKED TALK Internet Radio Show. Its always a stimulating conversation with my guests. .



NOTE : Join Me In My Effort To Change The World With My Empowering Thoughts. If You Like Today's 'Podcast'....Then Don't Forget To Comment and Share It With Those You Love (Or Even Like A Lot).

Got A Question? Feel Free To #AskAlexHere. If You Want Some Talk Therapy Instead, Then Take Advantage of my Private One-on-One and Book an appointment with #AskAlex using SetMore NOW!!!

Cheers To A Terrific Tuesday Lovelies. Kisses!!!
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Life And Love Will Find You


Hey Truth-Seekers, Its a new week and I thought to share some boosts with you...I hope it inspires something within you;

1) No one can LIVE 'your life' for you. It's up to you to know better, do better, and WANT better.

2) Embrace people who find ways to bring you JOY. Avoid people who only bring 'themselves'! You dig?!

3) Even if you're on the right track, you'll get run over if you just sit there. Don't sit still...Keep MOVING!

4) If you can't be with the 'one' you love...then LOVE the one you are with! In the end the one you are with, chose you over whatever circumstances. COMMITMENT and LOYALTY are way deeper characters than the spur of love.

5) Be THANKFUL for what you have; you'll end up having more... If you concentrate on what you don't have, you will never, ever have enough.

6) Stop 'comparing' the success of your relationship to the SUCCESS of others. Not everyone has the same goals....some want 'timeless love' and others want a 'free pass' during half time.

7) Each and every one of us have flaws. Instead of looking for someone who's perfect, look for the one who is IMPERFECTLY perfect for you!

8) Your 'past' relationships were only a waste of time if you didn't LEARN anything from them. Did you learn something?

9) Remember, FRIENDSHIP is the key to a 'lifetime of romance'! Fall in love again and again with your friend... Only your friend!

10) When two 'hearts' are MADE for each other, no distance is too far, no time is too long, no obstacle is too big and no other love can keep them apart! They'll always find a way back into each other's arms!

11) If a person is 'intimidated' by you, that's his/her problem, not yours. Keep your STANDARDS and always date on your level.

12) You will never have to chase a person who wants you. A person who wants you will pursue you and do everything in their power to stay RELEVANT in your life. Simple!

13) The fact that someone was in your 'past' doesn't mean they have to be in your 'future', especially if they aren't making EFFORT to be of consistent value to your 'present'.

14) The 'opportunity' of a life time must be MAXIMISE within the life time of the opportunity. Every chance you get, don't waste it. It may the one, the only or even the last chance you get.

15) If you're looking for love, start first by holding up a mirror! Right there! SEE! You MUST find love within yourself before you can share it with someone special.

Stop looking for LOVE...Instead 'BE' love... Then Love will find you!

So what do you think Lovelies? Feel free to EXPRESS your thoughts.

I look forward to hanging out with All VIP Stars from the Monday, 15 February 2016 in the Prestigious 'ALEX'S BLOG COMMUNITY' VIP Members Lounge. Want to get ACCESS to the VIP NAKED LOUNGE . and a 20% membership discount. Click GO EARLY NOW

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Have you grabbed your own copy of my Widely Anticipated New Book- THE NAKED TRUTH: Lies Stripped... The Reviews are great. Just Click my OFFICIAL WEBSITE,  or BUY @ AMAZONSMASHWORD, BARNES & NOBLE or PayHip and GUMROAD.  It is an Intimate & Relatable guide to the crazy TRUTH about Love, Life, Relationship, Sex & Reality. It offers WISDOM to those who are struggling to accept the truth about who they really are and different aspects of their life.  Get it and please let me know what you think.




P.S: If You love what I do...You can become a VIP STAR PATRON by making a monthly pledge to get access to my best quality content before anyone else + earn some good REWARDS. Click PLEDGE If you also missed my MOTIVATIONAL live webinar and want to watch THE NAKED CHALLENGE 101 Webinar Video. Please click ACCESS to download the and learn my 10 BASIC MIND STRATEGY on how to accomplish real GOALS.

Don't forget to call in and catch me on Talk Wednesday and Friday Radio SpecialLIVE @ 9pm (GMT) on THE NAKED TALK Internet Radio Show. Its always a stimulating conversation with my guests. .



NOTE : Join Me In My Effort To Change The World With My Empowering Thoughts. If You Like Today's 'Alex's Daily Boost'....Then Don't Forget To Comment and Share It With Those You Love (Or Even Like A Lot).

Got A Question? Feel Free To #AskAlexHere. If You Want Some Talk Therapy Instead, Then Take Advantage of my Private One-on-One and Book an appointment with #AskAlex using SetMore NOW!!!

Have A Terrific Tuesday Lovelies. Kisses!!!
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Thursday, 14 January 2016

PODCAST 044: Overcoming Negative Curves With Prolific American Novelist - Suzie Carr


She's a bi-sexual author who writes best-selling LESBIAN FICTION novels and has been happily married for 20 years to her soulmate, a man, and got bullied with hate mails from some of her lesbian fans in the LGBT community for being honest about her sexual preference and relationship status. Now she has finally found the COURAGE to come out after years of holding back, to openly address her FEARS on the show.

Listen to American Novelist strip herself completely NAKED in an honest raw conversation about her journey... Talk radio doesn't get any more enlightening than this.

She's a Contemporary Novelist, Philanthropist, Avid Blogger & Advocate for LGBT Equality & Animals, who writes about the BEAUTY of love and life, and has garnered raving reviews from her fans, followers and fellow authors, with Nine (9) Lesbian Fiction Bestsellers in her Kitty. She's passionate about POSITIVE living, community awareness and taking action. In this RADIO conversation, You'll also learn so many life lessons about "Overcoming Negative Curves...." and great tips for writing your own book, with my guest- SUZIE CARR

Five Small Details I Learned About Suzie...

1) She has a downright Infectious Laughter. We all need a good hearty laugh to be able to overcome the negative curves in life.

2) She didn't let people tell her she can't be a writer. She took her destiny into her own hands, by investing in her future, and starting her self publishing company. With 10 books to her credit and a massive fan base, she's well on her way to living her dreams.

3) She has a special writing technique that helps her build an intimate relationship with all her Characters. Yes, and we can't wait to meet "Brooke" in her upcoming book "The Dance" due for release in February 2016.

4) She's bi-sexual, and she genuinely loves the beauty of women falling in love with each other, but she's happily married to her soul mate - a good supportive man. (Seems rather complicated? but it's not. Really, its not).

5) You can follow her on Twitter: @Girl_Novelist or at her website and read more of her amazing blog/books at www.CurvesWelcome.com

SONGS PLAYED ON THE SHOW

1) "Don't" by Scott Krokoff
2) "Inside Out"  by Peter Kelly

If you missed the show LIVE, You can still LISTEN to the Archived Show here at my Radio Channel. Or you can SEARCH for my syndicated podcast on any of your favorite Internet Radio Platforms like Stitcher, ITunes or Tune-In Radio. Don't forget you can DOWNLOAD this episode to your device. You can also subscribe and leave your reviews on STITCHER and 

To Listen CLICK on The Player Below... NOW!



This EPISODE of #TNT 044 was brought to you by Zincha NaturalsHair'Volution Magazine and Qtaby Events .


So what do you think about our conversation, Truth-Seekers? Feel free to EXPRESS your thoughts. I Love You For Listening. Xx

I look forward to hanging out with All VIP Stars from the Monday, 15 February 2016 in the Prestigious 'ALEX'S BLOG COMMUNITY' VIP Members Lounge. Want to get ACCESS to the VIP NAKED LOUNGE . and a 20% membership discount. Click GO EARLY NOW

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Have you grabbed your own copy of my Widely Anticipated New Book- THE NAKED TRUTH: Lies Stripped... The Reviews are great. Just Click my OFFICIAL WEBSITE,  or BUY @ AMAZONSMASHWORD, BARNES & NOBLE or PayHip and GUMROAD.  It is an Intimate & Relatable guide to the crazy TRUTH about Love, Life, Relationship, Sex & Reality. It offers WISDOM to those who are struggling to accept the truth about who they really are and different aspects of their life.  Get it and please let me know what you think.




P.S: If You love what I do...You can become a VIP STAR PATRON by making a monthly pledge to get access to my best quality content before anyone else + earn some good REWARDS. Click PLEDGE If you also missed my MOTIVATIONAL live webinar and want to watch THE NAKED CHALLENGE 101 Webinar Video. Please click ACCESS to download the and learn my 10 BASIC MIND STRATEGY on how to accomplish real GOALS.

Don't forget to call in and catch me on Talk Wednesday and Friday Radio SpecialLIVE @ 9pm (GMT) on THE NAKED TALK Internet Radio Show. Its always a stimulating conversation with my guests. .



NOTE : Join Me In My Effort To Change The World With My Empowering Thoughts. If You Like Today's 'Podcast'....Then Don't Forget To Comment and Share It With Those You Love (Or Even Like A Lot).

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PODCAST 043: A Renewed Spiritual Belonging With Nigerian Actor - Kalu Ikeagwu


So many people, especially entertainers are lost in finding direction and CLARITY as regards how to achieve a BALANCE between their art and a healthy spiritual life...But not this Award Winning Nigerian Actor, Writer & TV Host who recently found a renewed spiritual belonging and is not ashamed to let his fans and the rest of the world know where he stands on his faith moving forward. As he shared with me on Friday Radio Special of THE NAKED TALK w/ Alex Okoroji Listen to my live RADIO conversation with Guest, BON Best Supporting Actor 2015 - KALU IKEAGWU in some real uncensored talk about his new spiritual identity, and how he has been able to re-discover and renew himself...And how others can find their own belonging and use it to WIN.

If you missed the show LIVE, You can still LISTEN to the Archived Show here at my Radio Channel. Or you can SEARCH for my syndicated podcast on any of your favorite Internet Radio Platforms like Stitcher, ITunes or Tune-In Radio. Don't forget you can DOWNLOAD this episode to your device. You can also subscribe and leave your reviews on STITCHER and 

To Listen CLICK on The Player Below... NOW!



This EPISODE of #TNT 043 was brought to you by Zincha NaturalsHair'Volution Magazine and Qtaby Events .


So what do you think about our conversation Truth-Seekers? Feel free to EXPRESS your thoughts. I Love You For Listening. Xx

I look forward to hanging out with All VIP Stars from the Monday, 15 February 2016 in the Prestigious 'ALEX'S BLOG COMMUNITY' VIP Members Lounge. Want to get ACCESS to the VIP NAKED LOUNGE . and a 20% membership discount. Click GO EARLY NOW

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Have you grabbed your own copy of my Widely Anticipated New Book- THE NAKED TRUTH: Lies Stripped... The Reviews are great. Just Click my OFFICIAL WEBSITE,  or BUY @ AMAZONSMASHWORD, BARNES & NOBLE or PayHip and GUMROAD.  It is an Intimate & Relatable guide to the crazy TRUTH about Love, Life, Relationship, Sex & Reality. It offers WISDOM to those who are struggling to accept the truth about who they really are and different aspects of their life.  Get it and please let me know what you think.




P.S: If You love what I do...You can become a VIP STAR PATRON by making a monthly pledge to get access to my best quality content before anyone else + earn some good REWARDS. Click PLEDGE If you also missed my MOTIVATIONAL live webinar and want to watch THE NAKED CHALLENGE 101 Webinar Video. Please click ACCESS to download the and learn my 10 BASIC MIND STRATEGY on how to accomplish real GOALS.

Don't forget to call in and catch me on Talk Wednesday and Friday Radio SpecialLIVE @ 9pm (GMT) on THE NAKED TALK Internet Radio Show. Its always a stimulating conversation with my guests. .



NOTE : Join Me In My Effort To Change The World With My Empowering Thoughts. If You Like Today's 'Podcast'....Then Don't Forget To Comment and Share It With Those You Love (Or Even Like A Lot).

Got A Question? Feel Free To #AskAlexHere. If You Want Some Talk Therapy Instead, Then Take Advantage of my Private One-on-One and Book an appointment with #AskAlex using SetMore NOW!!!

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Monday, 11 January 2016

The Great Grand Illusion Of Social Media


The TRUTH is I'm really one of those not-so-vain women, I can step out in my dead beat pyjamas & reading glasses or an oversize tee-shirt without a single speck of make up on, or decked out in the finest most flattering outfit any sultry woman can possibly adorn. And I swear, I would make your heart beat fast and your pants ring....Ding! Ding! Ding! Zzzzzzzz. But I won't be celebrating any reference to how "beautiful" I am...Geez! I have a mirror. What do you think? And I couldn't care less if "Alex-The-Girl-Next-Door" or "Alexandra-Boobilicious-The-Dick-Slayer" was on call. I don't care who the world gets to see, as long as they understand that these two personas are different parts of me... The pretty side and the not-so-pretty side.

Ah! Don't get me wrong. I do like ATTENTION...lotsss of it. I just like it to be a little more organic, EFFORTLESS and understated. Like when I walk into a room, and I catch you stealing side glances at me...I have an incredible hunch that you're attracted to me, but I have no proof. Dang! That for me is way more exciting...my mind is racing. It's on GUESS overdrive. I'm not saying play hard to get...(I don't have time for games)...I'm simply saying...Don't overwhelm me with your theatrics, it won't help your chances of getting down with me. I won't just buy the idea of taking your penis with me, because another woman has one like yours, she takes to her bed every night. Neither because someone thinks its a far better option than having just my fingers on solo nights. Kwa kwa kwa...I'm a little more discerning than I like to portray. I look for a reason...THE REASON...And now that I sense he may be watching me...Following me...My instincts are telling me I'm right about that silly hunch, after all I'm an intelligent woman...Yet he's not ogling me enough to take the challenge away from me, neither is he telling me every freaking minute how much he likes those twin girls up on my chest... or even begging me to FOLLOW HIM BACK to the ends of the earth, like so many random people do on Instagram.

Yes! You probably know, I'm not a big fan of instagram...I try to use it to connect and I do have quite a hand full of photos, as well as FOLLOWERS there in the tens of thousands (and I humbly appreciate them), but honestly speaking, my interaction there is zilch. Zero! I do have several reasons why its my least favorite though, apart from its obviously VAIN objective, there's the fact that I'm so freaking busy creating content for my multi-platforms including the radio and my blog. I also realised that most people actually use it as a mini blogging system themselves...(they don't realise this though because they think they aren't bloggers...except in their naivety, they keep sending the TRAFFIC to instagram, rather than create their own platforms and direct these curious crusaders to their own domain/website). They post their daily thoughts, stolen quotes and filtered images...and sit around waiting for people to jump on their images with 'likes' and 'follow me back' requests, (Not that there's anything wrong with that).

But I realised that It doesn't exactly do much for me...I really hate to be spoon fed. You post an image, nothing artsy or creatively INTELLECTUAL...Just a bunch of "Look-At-Me" photos and then you feed me, an un-authentic piece, I'm supposed to digest, no reference to the original author, sometimes no depth whatsover and certainly not from your soul...Aaarggghh! Oh! I'm guilty too...as I barely find the time to stop by there, glance through any of the myriads of touched up photos from people showing off their NARCISSM, perhaps even with texts as long as my longest winded blog post, presenting their very "Perfect Life" and oh their prettiest side too - "The Dick Slayer" or "Cunt Catcher" part of themselves, if I may say....Hahaha...Ever noticed me photo-shop out that annoying mole on the upper right side of my forehead? Nope! Not even when my doctor offered to take it out during Ray's birth or when the line producers on TINSEL would ask the hair and make-up assistants to cover it up with my hair, for fear of what the cameras would pick while filming. Still, I promise I'm not part of those hustling on Insta-streets. I don't hang around long enough to even drop a like or a comment....Sometimes, I try to when something AUTHENTIC catches my attention...but I rarely succeed. The FARCE of it all won't let me join the lying bandwagon. And I doubt I'll be auditioning for my next boyfriend there.

So imagine me licking my lips and fantasising at the thought of that HOT n' SEXY brother with six packs and no pimples gliding his hands down my back...Only to find out he's 10 layers of photoshop and 'H' Factor on steroids! Chineke! It's a bloody worthless distraction, mehn! And to be honest, I almost don't even care if people do the same to my photos there. Ignore them for the sheer reason that I simply don't return the favour...For me, it's become one grand playhouse for those seeking some VALIDATION of sort. (Like, If you say you love me, or I inspire you or that I'm a mega super star deserving of the sun and the moon...I may soon start to believe it). Rubbish! What if a hater says I'm crazy or that I'm a bad mother, a disgrace to millennials? Should I also believe it? Hahaha. People care how many people buy into the hype and false projections they have created for themselves...rather than accept the NAKED TRUTH about who they really are. They feed on the grave insecurity of others, as it has become a fierce competition for who can get more followers, the most likes or comments on a single photo, like it actually increases the true value of who you are. 4000 Likes...Ding...Ding...Ding....She's Popular! Where's the bloody bank alert! Dammit! If only each 'like' was really worth a thousand dollars in the bank. Whoosh!

Well, I'm the woman who tries to avoid the red carpet when I step out to events...(That's if I step out abeg)...Geez! I started attending events and awards when I was 6 years old, (barely out of my diapers)...then my Musician father was PMAN president- Nigeria's Biggest & Most Important Musical Association in the late 80's and 90's. And I was one of the only two children who used to run around those prestigious arena's in the midst of all those movers and shakers...and dignitaries, year in, year out (my school mates even hated me, they were jealous..and my primary school teachers used to suck up to me). They never knew the numerous nights, my mother never saw her husband because he was working or the countless days I never saw my father, of course I was too young to understand I was being bribed for his absence.. To them, I was a spoiled rich girl enjoying the taste of heaven (If only they knew).

Fast forward, I club-hopped and party-bopped as much as I could fit into my young adult weekends. I mingled with the Aristocrats and the Shot-callers. I'm very humble about it though. Of course, now I just shake my head when I see young people dying to be famous and lapping up the false-hood. I laugh when I see people who used to hustle for attention, fake their glorious arrival. You would expect that 32 years of growing up in the crevice of the Entertainment Industry and seeing the truth and reality of Show business, surely I would have over grown my own infantile desire to continuously be SEEN in the spotlight. Oh yes, I did! And I feel so guilty when I'm being referred to as a celebrity. It is true that I get celebrated whether by the media or individuals who write me emails daily...A painful truth, I don't take for granted. I mean, I do want to be appreciated for the VALUE I bring, not the fame I've been accustomed to, since I was a baby. So I figured, I can still be part of the industry, without being sucked in by it, right? And believe me, the lifestyle isn't that much of a big bloody deal. I'm privy to the SACRIFICES lots of famous people have to make.

So today I'm advocating to those who feel like their lives are not worth much or worth living, because of the ILLUSION that social media has created world wide and while I'm a believer of the immense advantage of the new media (considering it has connected me to so many global influencers), I also recognise the undue PRESSURE that comes with it. I know, I know darling, you too want your own bae like Tonto Dike. Your own dynasty like the Kardashians and the 'Jay Z' Carter's of this world. (do you even realise how hard these people work?) but I bet those pretty photos don't show the 'pains'...only the GAINS.

Still remember, that most people on social media present the "best version" of who they are or who they think people should BELIEVE they are. Nobody shares their darkest most pitiful moment, at least not while it's happening. It gives the illusion that their life is "perfect" when in reality, no one is PERFECT...we all go through things that challenge us to either give up or become better. And thus, comparing your life or inadequacy to others has become so darn easy, waaaay easy. Just a simple click will STRIP you off your remaining confidence and make you feel like you're not GOOD enough, not achieving much, not having as much fun or your life is such a freaking bore... These thoughts have crossed my mind (Oh damn you Alex! Why didn't you go to that event?...Whew! Why didn't I agree to make it work with him...Look at how the bloody bastard is flaunting her. Geez, I should be the one speaking at that event, not her). You question your CHOICES, and these thoughts affect your self-esteem, you become DESPERATE to prove that you too, are social media royalty, you are part of the inner-circle...the In-crowd. Then you forget who you really are, and what you really want out of life.

Well, you can be part of the system alright, but don't let yourself get sucked in, by it. Don't buy into the grand illusion of social media, because the person you think has the most likes, might by far - be the loneliest. The person who constantly shows off their beautiful ROMANTIC relationship, might have the biggest relationship frustrations. The person who always appears to be the happiest, might be the most depressed. You just never know. Don't compare your life to others because you don't know the reality of what people are going through. Appreciate your journey and work on GROWING. Life is really about gaining lessons from your experience and living your truth. Even the experts are guilty of this farce. You don't become an EXPERT because you are perfect. Actually, experts are a bunch of people who have made several mistakes in a particular niche and learned some good darn lessons. Keeping in mind that being NAKED is really about being aware of yourself, flaws and all...while presenting and accepting the TRUTH about who you really are right now, so that you can actually measure the depth of transformation you need to become, who you want to be. No cover ups, no lies...and certainly with no bloody Filters!! He he he. 🌻

So what do you think lovelies? Are you one of those lost in the illusion? Feel free to EXPRESS your thoughts!

I look forward to hanging out with All VIP Stars from the Monday, 15 February 2016 in the Prestigious 'ALEX'S BLOG COMMUNITY' VIP Members Lounge. Want to get ACCESS to the VIP NAKED LOUNGE . and a 20% membership discount. Click GO EARLY NOW
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Have you grabbed your own copy of my Widely Anticipated New Book- THE NAKED TRUTH: Lies Stripped... The Reviews are great. Just Click my OFFICIAL WEBSITE,  or BUY @ AMAZONSMASHWORD, BARNES & NOBLE or PayHip and GUMROAD.  It is an Intimate & Relatable guide to the crazy TRUTH about Love, Life, Relationship, Sex & Reality. It offers WISDOM to those who are struggling to accept the truth about who they really are and different aspects of their life.  Get it and please let me know what you think.




P.S: If You love what I do...You can become a VIP STAR PATRON by making a monthly pledge to get access to my best quality content before anyone else + earn some good REWARDS. Click PLEDGE If you also missed my MOTIVATIONAL live webinar and want to watch THE NAKED CHALLENGE 101 Webinar Video. Please click ACCESS to download the and learn my 10 BASIC MIND STRATEGY on how to accomplish real GOALS.

Don't forget to call in and catch me on Talk Wednesday and Friday Radio SpecialLIVE @ 9pm (GMT) on THE NAKED TALK Internet Radio Show. Its always a stimulating conversation with my guests. .



NOTE : Join Me In My Effort To Change The World With My Empowering Thoughts. If You Like Today's 'Random Musing'....Then Don't Forget To Comment and Share It With Those You Love (Or Even Like A Lot).

Got A Question? Feel Free To #AskAlexHere. If You Want Some Talk Therapy Instead, Then Take Advantage of my Private One-on-One and Book an appointment with #AskAlex using SetMore NOW!!!

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Thursday, 7 January 2016

PODCAST 042: American Citizen Advocate, Joan Treppa Leads Others To Raise Their Voice Of Innocence On Wrongful Convictions...


Do you know someone who has been wrongfully convicted for a CRIME and incarcerated for something they actually didn't do? Well, the numbers of victims are increasing daily globally, which was why the whole world was listening to us yesterday. Because Joan TREPPA-DATION came back on THE NAKED TALK w/ Alex Okoroji...And this time she pulled out the big guns for some REAL Talk about Wrongful Convictions. Yaaay! I was Very EXCITED to have MARK SAXENMEYER - The CEO of The Reporters Inc, join our LIVE round table conversation on "Raising That Voice of Innocence" spear headed by the Citizen Advocate herself, who picked up her flag for JUSTICE after reading and learning about the six men convicted for the murder of Thomas Monfils, a case that occurred in Green Bay, Wisconsin.

Outraged about the questionable integrity of the investigation and the plight of the five still incarcerated in prison, JOAN TREPPA – now often referred to as Joan “Treppa-dation” by the media - has become a force to be reckoned with as The Voice of Innocence, as she joined me -The Nigerian Queen of Talk LIVE on Talk Wednesday, with other guests, JOAN VAN HOUTEN, founder of Voice of Innocence and step daughter to one of the wrongfully convicted shared her experience, as well as American Author & Life Coach, NINA BINGHAM who brought a clinical psychological perspective to the conversation, MARK SAXENMEYER shared his views from a media perspective and JOHNNY JOHNSON also shared his views from the position of a law enforcement agent, as we beamed the SPOTLIGHT on the truth and realities of wrongful convictions.

To find out more details about the upcoming documentary "The Innocent Convicts" being produced by Mark Saxenmeyer, Please visit www.TheReporters.org

If you missed the show LIVE, You can still LISTEN to the Archived Show here at my Radio Channel. Or you can SEARCH for my syndicated podcast on any of your favorite Internet Radio Platforms like Stitcher, ITunes or Tune-In Radio. Don't forget you can DOWNLOAD this episode to your device. You can also subscribe and leave your reviews on STITCHER and 

To Listen CLICK on The Player Below... NOW!



This EPISODE of #TNT 042 was brought to you by Zincha NaturalsHair'Volution Magazine and The Tony Okoroji Store .


So what do you think about our conversation Truth-Seekers? Feel free to EXPRESS your thoughts. I Love You For Listening. Xx

I look forward to hanging out with All VIP Stars from the Monday, 15 February 2016 in the Prestigious 'ALEX'S BLOG COMMUNITY' VIP Members Lounge. Want to get ACCESS to the VIP NAKED LOUNGE . and a 20% membership discount. Click GO EARLY NOW

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Have you grabbed your own copy of my Widely Anticipated New Book- THE NAKED TRUTH: Lies Stripped... The Reviews are great. Just Click my OFFICIAL WEBSITE,  or BUY @ AMAZONSMASHWORD, BARNES & NOBLE or PayHip and GUMROAD.  It is an Intimate & Relatable guide to the crazy TRUTH about Love, Life, Relationship, Sex & Reality. It offers WISDOM to those who are struggling to accept the truth about who they really are and different aspects of their life.  Get it and please let me know what you think.




P.S: If You love what I do...You can become a VIP STAR PATRON by making a monthly pledge to get access to my best quality content before anyone else + earn some good REWARDS. Click PLEDGE If you also missed my MOTIVATIONAL live webinar and want to watch THE NAKED CHALLENGE 101 Webinar Video. Please click ACCESS to download the and learn my 10 BASIC MIND STRATEGY on how to accomplish real GOALS.

Don't forget to call in and catch me on Talk Wednesday and Friday Radio SpecialLIVE @ 9pm (GMT) on THE NAKED TALK Internet Radio Show. Its always a stimulating conversation with my guests. .



NOTE : Join Me In My Effort To Change The World With My Empowering Thoughts. If You Like Today's 'Feature'....Then Don't Forget To Comment and Share It With Those You Love (Or Even Like A Lot).

Got A Question? Feel Free To #AskAlexHere. If You Want Some Talk Therapy Instead, Then Take Advantage of my Private One-on-One and Book an appointment with #AskAlex using SetMore NOW!!!

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Tuesday, 5 January 2016

GUEST POST: Not Happy New Year... It's Happy New Orientation!


A few days ago, I received a new year MESSAGE from a friend that caught my attention...Oh yeah, he's one of those long winded writers like myself, whose deep message sends you on an introspective journey to Timbuktu and back - An example of when I was playing the lead character in one of his movies "Heroes Bride" years ago...Trying to imagine myself stuck in a real world of emotional confusion just like my character was, especially at a point in my life when I was really still trying to find myself. And I had to chew all those deep EMOTIONAL lines and somehow bring it to life.

To me Elimihe Osezuah is a master WORDSMITH... but to some, he's an entrepreneur in the motion picture content sector in Nigeria. With an 11-year career across television content writing, producing and directing, client servicing, business content development at various organisations like DBN TV (1999), African Children Broadcasting Network, Nigeria (1999), Media International Limited (2000-2002), Rosabel Leo Burnett (2002-2010) behind him as far back as 2011 when he founded ELose Plus Media Limited , Ose (as he generally called) has a passion for two things: the accomplished motion picture, and a commitment to directing people to the latent , yet super power within them, which he identifies as the power of BEING. So once, I read through his incredible new year message...I decided it would be selfish of me not to share this with all Ye! ABC Truth-Seekers. So here's Today's Guest Post by Osezuah Elimihe... Enjoy!

Hey! It's Happy New Orientation

The New Year you looked forward to for that amazing performance and manifestation is HERE. You have just expended two days of it and the third is about gone, too. Do you feel renewed? Do you feel transformed, or are you still the same person with frustrated responses to that key, which refuses to open that lock as fast as you envisaged, the same person feeling disappointed by everything around him/her, the fellow who's let down by people closest to him/her?

The one that never seems to find life fulfilling enough as he/she sees others doing so well while he/she is just getting along at the human fringes, or working so hard and never attaining the dream life? If yes, then welcome to the dangerous spiral of negativity clan. You are not alone, over 95% of humanity lives here, that is why such dangerous and accursed phrases like: 'No Pain, No Gain', 'You Can't Have it All', 'Life' s Not a Bed of Roses', ' Life' s Hard for the Good', 'It' s Never Easy', 'Uneasy Lies the Head that Wears the Crown' 'Life Is Tough'.

Now, let's take a look at your last efforts : You were at the church/mosque/temple on the 31st,you may have even fasted hours, or days into the New Year, you were resolved and fervently prayed to turn things around for the better.

I know a Dear friend whose Mac charger blew up on the very first day of this January! That's a mean setback for anyone who knows what a Mac charger goes for especially these days of the free fall of the Naira against the dollars! Is this not bad for this guy? Wait, Is your Normal old years' routine and accidents reoccurring over again? I asked my friend what he felt about the loss of his Mac charger on the first day of the year. His answer was, 'I smell a new Mac, and a new charger for the old Mac.' Trust me, new macs smell so good! What an attitude statement from my dear friend! Can you feel him? He's certainly not the lower type. Attitude is everything. How do you feel: that you just may not be able to turn life around to your dream station, that you're just you and not that grand personality you envisaged in the last days of the year?

Many single guys are getting phone calls from single ladies they had not heard from since the last year began, ditto for single ladies receiving phone calls from guys who had gone off their radar for months and sometimes years, and they are all willing to make a super commitment, but trust me within the next few weeks everything returns to normal. CHANGE DOES NOT COME FROM THE OUTSIDE. The real change is from INSIDE YOU. I tell you what, there are two causes of retrogression: 1, Projection and 2, Mental Misadventure. Solve these problems and you will not need to bother about success and growth. We spent a great part of last year discussing mental misadventure in my Monday inner Game Circle Classes and whatsapp group. While Projection is something you might find new, but I imagine every student of Psychology has an idea of what it means.

The best way I can describe the phenomenon of Projection is: you always see in yourself what you imagine others are thinking about you, and you see in others what you think about them. In other words what you see about others and about yourself most of the time is not real. Your feeling about how ugly, how poor, how broke, how weak, how fearful, how ignorant you are is not real. It comes from projection. This Projection leads to bad thoughts and emotions which in themselves become mental Misadventure.

Everything negative either comes from the past or the future, but the past and the future, just like the imagination of what people think about you, does not exist. Like the New Year, it is all a convenience label for diversion. The real thing is ORIENTATION. There is no new year, only new orientation. I leave you with a quote from the late Archbishop Benson Idahosa, 'If you change your orientation, God will change your situation'. Now what is this word, ORIENTATION? Simply put, it is the way we look at things. Wayne Dyer once said, 'if you change the way you look at things, the things you look at will change'. So Happy New Orientation!
Hahaha! I agree Absolutely! But that's my opinion! What do you think Lovelies? Feel free to EXPRESS Your Thoughts!

I look forward to hanging out with All VIP Stars from the Monday, 25 January 2016 in the Prestigious 'ALEX'S BLOG COMMUNITY' VIP Members Lounge. Want to get ACCESS to the VIP NAKED LOUNGE . and a 20% membership discount. Click GO EARLY NOW
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