Wednesday, 27 July 2016

Better For You, NOT Better Than ME!


Do you know that what you tell yourself matters a lot? How you see yourself matters too. Its okay to allow people doubt your WORTH, but do not ever let them make YOU, doubt yourself.

About Rejection...

I received an email on #AskAlex and one of my readers wanted to know how I personally manage rejection when I give my best, yet someone chooses somebody else over me.

I certainly know what she's talking about. I have experienced it in relationships, in my career, even during movie auditions, in friendship and even business...You know you are the best qualified for it - but they pick someone else and it makes you want to QUIT, because you can't phantom why or what they see in that other person.

Well here's a mental catch phrase I have adopted in the last one year... "They Are Better for YOU, not BETTER than ME...".

I repeat this to myself, every time I get a NO or some sort of rejection. It is in fact true and has become one of my daily affirmations.

Think about it clearly, as objective as we all want to be or even think we are...Everything we view is SUBJECTIVE. It's from our point of view, from how it favors us, to how it makes us feel and the way it makes us look. It's all about what is in it for us right now. What is easier? Less Complex? How it enables us... The immediate short term goal and not the long term goal.

I have even personally made choices in the past, based on these same premise - even when I clearly knew it wasn't going anywhere. I was thinking NOW and not 5 Years from Now, when all these other people, circumstances and opinions no longer matter.

You might in fact be the better choice - the smart choice, the right man or woman for the job or for that person's vision, growth, heart or future, but if the person choosing is so caught up in their own subjectivity, they will never SEE it. They will only choose what they think is better for them right now. But that must NEVER take away from who you are and what you have to offer others who are wiser.

So every time someone passes over you, even after you have given them your best and your everything.

Say this out loud - "Better For You, Not BETTER Than ME..." and move on. You'll soon realise with time, how true and powerful these words really are. - #AlexDailyBoost #MyWednesdayMorsel #ThinkTonic

Stay Authentic Truth-Seekers & Keep Winning!

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LETS TALK: What do You THINK, Truth-Seekers? Feel free to EXPRESS your thoughts in the comment section. Better still, send me a FREE Voice Message.



or you could use the PINK Button on the right side (desktop view) to leave me a Message. I'll love to HEAR from you. And don't forget to watch the replay or GRAB your pass to get the downloadable recording of the just concluded live virtual summit with ME and 25 Amazing Speakers from around the world at THE NAKED CHALLENGE: Creative Mastery Global Summit 2016 that streamed LIVE from Monday July 4 - Saturday July 9, 2016.

Click HERE to Join Waiting List & Be among first 100 Creatives to Get 50% Discount on Downloadable Recording & Summit Resources.

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I look forward to hanging out with All ABC Stars in the Prestigious 'ALEX'S BLOG COMMUNITY' Virtual Lounge. Want to acquire new skills, expand your mind, connect with influencers & get ACCESS to the THE NAKED BLISS ACADEMY at www.AlexOkoroji.com and a 20% VIP Membership discount. Click GO NOW

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Have you grabbed your own COPY of my Highly Acclaimed Book- THE NAKED TRUTH: Lies Stripped...? The Reviews are great. Just Click PLAY to listen to the Audio Preview OR on the book image to go to my OFFICIAL WEBSITE,  or BUY @ AMAZONSMASHWORD, BARNES & NOBLE or PayHip and GUMROAD.

It is a Witty Intimate & Relatable guide to the crazy TRUTH about Love, Life, Relationship, Sex, Reality & Re-invention of self. It offers WISDOM to those who are struggling to accept the truth about who they really are and what they truly want out of life.  Get your copy NOW!

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P.S: If You love what I do...You can become a VIP STAR PATRON by making a monthly pledge to get access to my exclusive VIP conversations with influencers & expert guests frSom around the world, as well as my best quality content before anyone else in my community + earn some good REWARDS. Click PLEDGE to become my PATRON now!

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Don't forget to call in to my globally syndicated show via +1-(215)-383-3766 and catch me on Talk Wednesday and Friday Radio SpecialLIVE @ 9pm (GMT) on THE NAKED TALK Radio Show. Its always a stimulating conversation with my guests. 



NOTE : Join Me In My Effort To Change The World With My Empowering Thoughts. If You Like Today's 'Alex's Daily Boost'....Then Don't Forget To Comment and Share It With Those You Love (Or Even Like A Lot).

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Have A Wonderful Wednesday Lovelies. Kisses!!!


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Monday, 18 July 2016

Don't Forget Who You Really Are...


Happy New Week Truth-Seekers,

What's on your goal plate this week? Are you worried about accomplishing goals? Are you worried that you are not enough? Have you forgotten who you are???

Well, Even the best of us forget who we are sometimes...

We FORGET what we are capable of... The Milestones we have already accomplished and the hoop of fire, we've had to pass through to get to where HOPE is.

We forget how beautiful, talented, industrious, generous, spiritual, loving and strong we are...

We forget the immense value we bring, the many we inspire and those who depend on us to make something happen...

We forget that we are soldiers, conquerors, achievers...VICTORS. We forget we are Kings and Queens...Leaders, Teachers and Children of the most high God.

We forget that we are SPECIAL, unique, different...we are front liners, pace setters, transformers, lateral thinkers.

YES...I have to admit, that I sometimes forget how GREAT a woman I am. It's true, I forget. And it means you have to depend on others to see yourself through their eyes.

But just imagine if they had such a warped view of your abilities...imagine if the view they get of you is blurred, tainted or even tinted. What if they are short sighted and aren't even wearing their glasses?

What if they couldn't make out your greatness lurking around those shadows, and you had to depend completely on their assessment of you.

What if they haven't gotten to fully EXPERIENCE everything that makes you ZING. And you have to let their lies sip in and become the foundation of your biggest doubts.

Sometimes, I don't think I do nearly enough...sometimes, I think there's something missing. And that I can't hear myself think, I can't make out my voice. Other times, I get the impression I'm coming out too loud...too much in everyone's face, even when I'm hardly ever seen.

But today...I had to write down everything that is so freaking amazing about me, to remind myself...that I have come thus far by raising up my own MIRROR...setting my own standards and using my own lenses...as a MEMO to that little forgetful girl inside of me, who still dares to question who I am.

And even though the world may not always keep your virtues in mind. You shouldn't have to ever forget to remind them - who YOU ARE.

So yeah! Just in case you don't know... I am Alex Okoroji

  • A 2015 Global Consciousness Raiser
  • Idea Builders "Women Mentoring Women" Mentor
  • A 2016 Featured Guardian Woman
  • #SheMatters International Ambassador
  • RB Magazine Blogger of The Month -Year 2015

And a Freaking "One Woman Tornado" Hahaha!

Yes, I'm taking the world from Inside Africa. I'm AWESOME. I know it...And I hope my awesomeness rubs off on you and reminds you of how AMAZING you too are

If you don't like that I am! I'm sorry...*shrugs. I honestly couldn't be bothered right now. Why?

Because, I've got my eyes SET on something far more important - MY GOALS!!! And you too should!

NOTE: "Who do you associate or surround yourself with? Who are you letting MENTOR you? Do they remind you of who you are? Do they motivate you to ASPIRE? Or do they enable your weaknesses? The Right People with the right kind of energy is important. You owe it to yourself". - #AlexDailyBoost #MyMondayMorsel #ThinkTonic

Stay Authentic & Keep Winning!

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LETS TALK: What do You THINK, Truth-Seekers? Feel free to EXPRESS your thoughts in the comment section. Better still, send me a FREE Voice Message.



or you could use the PINK Button on the right side (desktop view) to leave me a Message. I'll love to HEAR from you. And don't forget to watch the replay or GRAB your pass to get the downloadable recording of the just concluded live virtual summit with ME and 25 Amazing Speakers from around the world at THE NAKED CHALLENGE: Creative Mastery Global Summit 2016 that streamed LIVE from Monday July 4 - Saturday July 9, 2016.

Click HERE to Join Waiting List & Be among first 100 Creatives to Get 50% Discount on Downloadable Recording & Summit Resources.

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I look forward to hanging out with All ABC Stars in the Prestigious 'ALEX'S BLOG COMMUNITY' Virtual Lounge. Want to acquire new skills, expand your mind, connect with influencers & get ACCESS to the THE NAKED BLISS ACADEMY at www.AlexOkoroji.com and a 20% VIP Membership discount. Click GO NOW

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Have you grabbed your own COPY of my Highly Acclaimed Book- THE NAKED TRUTH: Lies Stripped...? The Reviews are great. Just Click PLAY to listen to the Audio Preview OR on the book image to go to my OFFICIAL WEBSITE,  or BUY @ AMAZONSMASHWORD, BARNES & NOBLE or PayHip and GUMROAD.

It is a Witty Intimate & Relatable guide to the crazy TRUTH about Love, Life, Relationship, Sex, Reality & Re-invention of self. It offers WISDOM to those who are struggling to accept the truth about who they really are and what they truly want out of life.  Get your copy NOW!

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Don't forget to call in to my globally syndicated show via +1-(215)-383-3766 and catch me on Talk Wednesday and Friday Radio SpecialLIVE @ 9pm (GMT) on THE NAKED TALK Radio Show. Its always a stimulating conversation with my guests. 



NOTE : Join Me In My Effort To Change The World With My Empowering Thoughts. If You Like Today's 'Alex's Daily Boost'....Then Don't Forget To Comment and Share It With Those You Love (Or Even Like A Lot).

Got A Question? Feel Free To #AskAlexHere. If You Want Some Talk Therapy Instead, Then Take Advantage of my Private One-on-One and Book an appointment with #AskAlex using SetMore NOW!!!

Enjoy A Magnificent Monday Lovelies. Kisses!!!





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Yes, I Am A Closet Prude


So a friend of mine called me a "PRUDE" some days ago... well, you may not believe this - But Alex has a hard time mentioning the word "sex"..."fuck" or even "vagina".... Isn't that weird for a woman who is constantly NAKED and very graphic when she writes. You would think as a talker, I'm spewing all sorts between every phrase. But err...No!!

In fact, He playfully threatened..."Alex, I'm going to tell your fans...they have to know that Alex is such a prude"...Damn! Your tribe needs to hear this...Ha ha ha... and I stayed there arguing with him...No, I'm not...No I'm not.

But the deeper I think about it. I realised It's okay to admit that I am a prude, in some way.

In fact I have written many times, how I don't talk the way I write....I'm still a traditional woman in my demeanor - Perhaps, that's the disappointment several men experience when they get to meet me - because I'm such a walking contradiction.

They have all these crazy fantasies about me riding their pony on a sleigh to 4th heaven...And when they meet me, they are expecting a wanton goddess dripping ecstasy from both sides of my anatomy. Yet, I present them - the real me, a COMPLEX thinking, goal oriented woman who is more focused on building a genuine mental connection.

They want me on all fours, but I want to talk about my goals for the next four months.

They want me to rip off their shirts and taste them, where it tickles...but all I really want is to TICKLE their heart and their brains to awaken.

They want me to be the Alex who writes the "Raw & Unfiltered..." and goes on many sexual adventures...but I'm the woman who masturbates WORDS & grinds to the sound of her own mental quickies.

I do have an alter ego who has a potty mouth and takes over my pen. I have an alter ego who is CRAZY and thinks the most ridiculous sexcapades and adventures. I have an alter ego who is ballsy- doesn't give fucks and honestly doesn't care who watches others chew on her clit. She can say FUCK a million times. And she doesn't care who literally watches her get naked.

But in reality, I'll be damned before someone heard me fire on like I'm a loose cannon. Yet, they are both genuine sides of me. Like each of us, with combination of light & darkness. Yes, we all have a dark side.

In being NAKED I reveal what goes on the innermost crevice of my mind, thoughts that many people may never get access to. Yet I find my COURAGE in those words...and strut bare breast to that open podium in the court of public opinions, to say the things I other wise may not say in reality.

In the end, that's the paradox that is me.

I am confident, yet very shy. I appear sexual, but I'm more sensual. I'm open, yet very PRIVATE (You'll be shocked the things you don't know about me)...I am complex, yet very simple. I am an infinite mix of characters and virtues, I am daring, yet guarded...

Guarded?? That's right! For many reasons - No matter how NAKED you are - It is still necessary to find little creative ways to preserve or guard your MYSTERY and there is nothing to be ashamed off, about exuding a certain modesty or propriety- especially if it feels authentic to one's nature, so as long as you continue to keep your MIND naked & free.

So Yes. I just realised am in fact a 'Closet PRUDE'. And you know what? I love it!!

Stay Authentic & Keep Winning!

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LETS TALK: What do You THINK, Truth-Seekers? Feel free to EXPRESS your thoughts in the comment section. Better still, send me a FREE Voice Message.



or you could use the PINK Button on the right side (desktop view) to leave me a Message. I'll love to HEAR from you. And don't forget to watch the replay or GRAB your pass to get the downloadable recording of the just concluded live virtual summit with ME and 25 Amazing Speakers from around the world at THE NAKED CHALLENGE: Creative Mastery Global Summit 2016 that streamed LIVE from Monday July 4 - Saturday July 9, 2016.

Click HERE to Join Waiting List & Be among first 100 Creatives to Get 50% Discount on Downloadable Recording & Summit Resources.
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I look forward to hanging out with All ABC Stars in the Prestigious 'ALEX'S BLOG COMMUNITY' Virtual Lounge. Want to acquire new skills, expand your mind, connect with influencers & get ACCESS to the THE NAKED BLISS ACADEMY at www.AlexOkoroji.com and a 20% VIP Membership discount. Click GO NOW

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Have you grabbed your own COPY of my Highly Acclaimed Book- THE NAKED TRUTH: Lies Stripped...? The Reviews are great. Just Click PLAY to listen to the Audio Preview OR on the book image to go to my OFFICIAL WEBSITE,  or BUY @ AMAZONSMASHWORD, BARNES & NOBLE or PayHip and GUMROAD.

It is a Witty Intimate & Relatable guide to the crazy TRUTH about Love, Life, Relationship, Sex, Reality & Re-invention of self. It offers WISDOM to those who are struggling to accept the truth about who they really are and what they truly want out of life.  Get your copy NOW!

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P.S: If You love what I do...You can become a VIP STAR PATRON by making a monthly pledge to get access to my exclusive VIP conversations with influencers & expert guests frSom around the world, as well as my best quality content before anyone else in my community + earn some good REWARDS. Click PLEDGE to become my PATRON now!

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Don't forget to call in to my globally syndicated show via +1-(215)-383-3766 and catch me on Talk Wednesday and Friday Radio SpecialLIVE @ 9pm (GMT) on THE NAKED TALK Radio Show. Its always a stimulating conversation with my guests. 



NOTE : Join Me In My Effort To Change The World With My Empowering Thoughts. If You Like Today's 'Raw And Unfiltered'....Then Don't Forget To Comment and Share It With Those You Love (Or Even Like A Lot).

Got A Question? Feel Free To #AskAlexHere. If You Want Some Talk Therapy Instead, Then Take Advantage of my Private One-on-One and Book an appointment with #AskAlex using SetMore NOW!!!

Have A Magnificent Monday Lovelies. Kisses!!!



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PODCAST 064: The Power of Fashion And Culture w/ International Fashion Designer - Honey Malaolu


Honey Malaolu is a luxury African fashion designer, born in the UK but originally from Nigeria with a BA in Fashion and Textiles from the University of Kent, driven to create a Bespoke women's wear brand with designs that enhance the BEAUTY of a woman’s figure by combining innovative silhouette and exciting prints.

Each of her collection, recreates the essence of the butterfly, which reflects the inspiration for the brand and uses traditional ethnic prints and weaves to stay connected to her African roots. With features on Grazia, Business Times Africa and many more,

She is a great believer in the POWER of entrepreneurship, culture and fashion to create a new story-telling of Africa and its vast influence on global fashion.

I was very excited to chat in an unfiltered radio conversation with International Fashion Designer - HONEY MALAOLU live from the UK, as we explored the power of using fashion as a tool to impact, teach, form and empower women to foster opportunities and build businesses on THE NAKED TALK w/ Alex Okoroji .

You can Click to CONNECT with Honey Malaolu on www.HoneyMalaolu.com and on Twitter: @honeymalaolu

If you missed the show LIVE, You can still LISTEN to the Archived Show here at my Radio Channel. Or you can SEARCH for my syndicated podcast on any of your favorite Internet Radio Platforms like Stitcher, ITunes or Tune-In Radio. Don't forget you can DOWNLOAD this episode to your device. You can also subscribe and leave your reviews on STITCHER and 

To Listen CLICK on The Player Below... NOW!



This EPISODE of #TNT 064 was brought to you by Ziino Online StoresZincha NaturalsHair'Volution Magazine and Qtaby Events .

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LETS TALK: What do You THINK about Our Conversation, Truth-Seekers? Feel free to EXPRESS your thoughts in the comment section. Better still, send me a FREE Voice Message.



or you could use the PINK Button on the right side (desktop view) to leave me a Message. I'll love to HEAR from you. And don't forget to watch the replay or GRAB your pass to get the downloadable recording of the just concluded live virtual summit with ME and 25 Amazing Speakers from around the world at THE NAKED CHALLENGE: Creative Mastery Global Summit 2016 that streamed LIVE from Monday July 4 - Saturday July 9, 2016.

Click HERE to Join Waiting List & Be among first 100 Creatives to Get 50% Discount on Downloadable Recording & Summit Resources.

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I look forward to hanging out with All ABC Stars in the Prestigious 'ALEX'S BLOG COMMUNITY' Virtual Lounge. Want to acquire new skills, expand your mind, connect with influencers & get ACCESS to the THE NAKED BLISS ACADEMY at www.AlexOkoroji.com and a 20% VIP Membership discount. Click GO NOW

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Have you grabbed your own COPY of my Highly Acclaimed Book- THE NAKED TRUTH: Lies Stripped...? The Reviews are great. Just Click PLAY to listen to the Audio Preview OR on the book image to go to my OFFICIAL WEBSITE,  or BUY @ AMAZONSMASHWORD, BARNES & NOBLE or PayHip and GUMROAD.

It is a Witty Intimate & Relatable guide to the crazy TRUTH about Love, Life, Relationship, Sex, Reality & Re-invention of self. It offers WISDOM to those who are struggling to accept the truth about who they really are and what they truly want out of life.  Get your copy NOW!

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P.S: If You love what I do...You can become a VIP STAR PATRON by making a monthly pledge to get access to my exclusive VIP conversations with influencers & expert guests frSom around the world, as well as my best quality content before anyone else in my community + earn some good REWARDS. Click PLEDGE to become my PATRON now!

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Don't forget to call in to my globally syndicated show via +1-(215)-383-3766 and catch me on Talk Wednesday and Friday Radio SpecialLIVE @ 9pm (GMT) on THE NAKED TALK Radio Show. Its always a stimulating conversation with my guests. 



NOTE : Join Me In My Effort To Change The World With My Empowering Thoughts. If You Like Today's 'Podcast'....Then Don't Forget To Comment and Share It With Those You Love (Or Even Like A Lot).

Got A Question? Feel Free To #AskAlexHere. If You Want Some Talk Therapy Instead, Then Take Advantage of my Private One-on-One and Book an appointment with #AskAlex using SetMore NOW!!!

Have A Magnificent Monday Lovelies. Kisses!!!




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Sunday, 10 July 2016

Love Is Freedom Against A Closed Heart...


Here's a TRUTH - something I now understand better, 15 years after...

See, before now - I never understood how my first boyfriend -Yemi, could love me so much, and not ever be JEALOUS or suspicious of the other men vying for my attention. I never could get why he was so understanding with me...why he was so PATIENT, to the point, it rattled me or why HE was never uncomfortable being around other men he knew wanted to be with me...

Not even once. Geez! I guess I must have gotten some of my openness from the freedom he gave me. I mean I could tell him anything (even though sometimes, I was lucid - other times I was just an enigma, but he knew how to DRAW me out, in a good way... and make my heart skip in a million beats.

I never understood why he always treated me with the utmost respect, like a WOMAN, and not a little girl, even though I was just a 17 year old, going on 18 - he could simply take advantage of. He was 8 years older...wiser...been in the world...And was the most drop dead gorgeous man, I had ever seen...As gorgeous in his MIND as he was in his looks...Whoosh! Many-a-lady his age wanted him, Damn, they did...Who wouldn't? I did the first time I saw him... though I didn't think I had a chance. Pro Basket-Baller, Well Read, Well Traveled, Spoke Seven Different International Languages, had a sense of humor and a weird chuckle to fart for... I still have a hard time getting my pidgin to match his genius. And oh, he loved rock music - Weird!! Yup! But I loved it.

He could have me anywhere he wanted...A-N-Y-W-H-E-R-E but, he NEVER did! Despite how much he loved me, how much he wanted me. He never did.

Instead, He always chose to wait - till I was ready. Even when I thought I was ready, right after my 18th birthday. I was ready to give myself, but still he thought I wasn't. He wanted my first time to be beyond memorable...We found other ways to make love...to show love...and communicate our desires for one another, but we never went ALL the way. This was Art... the Art of love (And times, he would joke about how he would NEVER be able to let me, go... once we sealed it and no, he wasn't messing with anyone else). He simply waited.

And Waited till we were no longer a couple. Yet we still were....still are...in the heart of it all. UNSPOKEN, in the shadows. But there! And possibly the only man, who never gave me any reason whatsoever to DOUBT myself, doubt him, his intentions or his actions. Because I understand what real love looks like and feels like, whether he was, in the same space with me, or not. I was HAPPY. Happy knowing wherever he was in the world. I had a secure spot in his heart. Even without the SEX. Forever!

Now, That's Love!

I guess that's why so many years later, I felt jinxed - Reminded of his parting words that no one will ever love me like he did.

And truthfully, no one ever did. It wasn't a CURSE. It wasn't a bitter statement. It wasn't something he said out of anger, pain or bitterness. It was simply a statement of TRUTH. It would take a man with possibly far more heart, pure fire and a tough cranium to dig me in such a way. But not many men are really aligned in that particular order. He knew that.

He also knew I needed to GROW, to go into the world, come into my own... and see LIFE for what it is. And he never judged me, even though many told him that little girl will break his heart. She will find someone else, someone younger, someone new and she will dump you.

He didn't hold it against me - And God knows, I didn't walk away because I no longer loved him. Whaaat?? I loved him far too much. It wasn't LOUD. But it was there, everywhere...so much so that I was scared of my own feelings, so much that I preferred to BREAK my own heart... than let him do same to me when he finally decides to pick a girl his age...or that I'm no longer good enough.

Sometimes, I think he should have stopped me, begged and cried...I probably wouldn't have listened...And he didn't, because He knew he had to let me GO. Let me learn about life's curves.

Oh I sure did, the hard way!

And no one ever did love me like him, not in that same GROWN zone, that mature kind of love, devoid of tricks, games, lies and manipulation many are used to. Just a love that's pure, transparent...and NAKED!

He set such a high STANDARD. So high the men after him, never understood why I always wanted to be treated with the same level of TRUST, respect, openness, freedom and transparency.

They never understood why I never held anything back or Why I wanted them to value my PRESENCE.

I remember how he used to write me and say how honoured he was that I was his little woman - because I could pick any other man I wanted, yet I chose him. Whew! Those words humbled me every time I heard him show gratitude... Humbling??? Yes, very humbling actually, especially coming from a man who considerably more accomplished than me at the time. Imagine a tall dark handsome man - honoured to have me in his life, because he understood that LOVE was a gift and he valued it.

Nothing gets me like a man, who's not ashamed to be completely EXPRESSIVE.

A man who helps you wear your crown, like the Queen that you are...

Even now, after several failed relationships, I have learned my biggest lessons about love, from being by myself ALONE. From taking that space, replaying those memories and discovering the truth - You don't have to be with someone for you to love them or for them to love you...(Remember, those days when we all forced ourselves - or rather forced the other person to stay...to TRY to see us, accept us, really SEE us for who we are). It's not even necessary.

And even if they are no longer a part of your life, they are not allowed to walk away and take away your happiness with them, No way!!! Because true love does not POSSESS - It actually LIBERATES. It sets you free.

So, If you love someone, like you really do...don't keep a closed heart. Set them FREE, let them wander. Don't box them in, limit them, impose on them or takeaway their freedom to be who they really are, or at least who they aspire to BE, because in freedom, their happiness is vital, And its your responsibility to equate it with your own happiness.

And that may sometimes mean that YOU are not even, a part of the equation. And that's okay.

Don't take away their POWER to decide for themselves whether or where you truly belong in their life. You must love in such a way that the person you love feels free...because in true love, one attains freedom.

EMPOWER them to be their most beautiful, most SECURE self. They may not value It now...But I guarantee you, 15 years from now, they will realise how much BETTER their lives would have been with you in it. Or at best, they will be thankful for having had YOU play such a vital role in shaping their future.

P.S: In a mysterious twist of fate, I'm always thankful... Yemi, let me spread my wings. And, somehow, someway...I think I'm FLYING! I owe my confidence to his love. And I will always love him for gifting me a burst of freedom.

Culled from My Upcoming Second Book - THE NAKED EXPERIENCE: From Timid Girl To Confident Woman...

Stay Authentic & Keep Winning!

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LETS TALK: What do You THINK, Truth-Seekers? Feel free to EXPRESS your thoughts in the comment section. Better still, send me a FREE Voice Message.



or you could use the PINK Button on the right side (desktop view) to leave me a Message. I'll love to HEAR from you. And don't forget to watch the replay or GRAB your pass to get the downloadable recording of the just concluded live virtual summit with ME and 25 Amazing Speakers from around the world at THE NAKED CHALLENGE: Creative Mastery Global Summit 2016 that streamed LIVE from Monday July 4 - Saturday July 9, 2016 Click Eventbrite - THE NAKED CHALLENGE: Creative Mastery Global Summit

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I look forward to hanging out with All ABC Stars in the Prestigious 'ALEX'S BLOG COMMUNITY' Virtual Lounge. Want to acquire new skills, expand your mind, connect with influencers & get ACCESS to the THE NAKED BLISS ACADEMY at www.AlexOkoroji.com and a 20% VIP Membership discount. Click GO NOW

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Have you grabbed your own COPY of my Highly Acclaimed Book- THE NAKED TRUTH: Lies Stripped...? The Reviews are great. Just Click PLAY to listen to the Audio Preview OR on the book image to go to my OFFICIAL WEBSITE,  or BUY @ AMAZONSMASHWORD, BARNES & NOBLE or PayHip and GUMROAD.

It is a Witty Intimate & Relatable guide to the crazy TRUTH about Love, Life, Relationship, Sex, Reality & Re-invention of self. It offers WISDOM to those who are struggling to accept the truth about who they really are and what they truly want out of life.  Get your copy NOW!

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P.S: If You love what I do...You can become a VIP STAR PATRON by making a monthly pledge to get access to my exclusive VIP conversations with influencers & expert guests frSom around the world, as well as my best quality content before anyone else in my community + earn some good REWARDS. Click PLEDGE to become my PATRON now!

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